Why do some women refuse cunnilingus?

Yeah, I've only been with a few but it seems they all really like it. My current bf LOVES it. I don't think I was that good at it but he says I've gotten a lot better so it's all good.

I have to agree that pussy has a distinct smell, given that it should not have a "Fishy odour" ( usually this can be assoicated with an STD or with bacteria "being off" in the womans vagina).

Personally I heard that some men do what you call a "finger test" to make sure that there is no funk with the womans spunk......anyways i usually do my own finger test ( i know sounds weird but puts me at ease)

I very good friend of mine absolutely hates it, she won't let anyone do it even if they beg (and believe me I did)

For her its purely a mental thing, she finds the thought of any face going near something that urinates disgusting (her ex asked her about rimming once, you should have heard the phone call I got after that )

She's not concerned about smell or anything else, and its not like she's never experienced it (and liked it too apparently) she just can't get the idea out of her head

(On a side note: Hubby has always hated doing it, he had an ex who wouldn't give head, so thought "going down on her" might prompt her into being a little more giving. This went on for almost 7 months, he didn't get any head and I think he associates the 2 now so can't do it)

Some men might be shit at it.... but that's no reason not to have it. You just gotta make sure he is good. Sex is no fun without any licks, me thinks. You'd feel like a prossie otherwise

That's exactly right! There is nothing more powerful for a man to be clutched between her legs, and there is nothing more freeing then a man sticking his lips and tongue in all the places... it's like nothing is left untouched or fenced off, which is how it should be. You should be able to experience someone's whole body.

I was wondering this as well. One of my female friends and I are very open with each other and she told me that she won't let guys go down on her, i was baffled cause i always thought the stigma was that women loved it. My guess was that she was self-conscious and wouldn't enjoy it which doesn't seem too far off now.

If she wont let me munch her carpet, there are plenty out there that will.

relationships should not merely be catagorized by the sexual limitations of it. If you're partner does not like it, Then do not re-hash the thought of it to them until they are a willing participant. As long as the other person is willing to do something and does not feel forced to do it, then i promise the whole situation is going to turn out way better. So don't push it, if they dont want it. I personally dont really care either way...if she wants me to i will and if she doesnt, then i dont. For the men---- Make sure the woman is OK with what you are doing to her... NEVER EVER force anything on her that she doesnt want to do even if it is a desire for you. Just because she wont do it now doesnt mean she wont later so hold your horses, it could make things ALOT better in the future

from what i've observed, my girlfriends who refuse oral sex do so because they think the idea is "dirty." in my opinion, that's a lame excuse. i always tell them they're missing out. ain't no better feeling than a warm wet tongue licking my clit and savouring my juices!

It does nothing at all.

It's always short-lived because it's boring and even sleep inducing.

Same goes for fingers &/or toys.

Hate all that stuff. What's the point?

A proper, pussy-fucking, cock fuck is the only thing that works.

We're all different, I guess.

While receiving oral sex can feel really good, I think its something that is more built up as a way to pleasure a gal in a guys mind than it really is for the woman herself.

For me, nothing can compare to good hard fuck. Getting oral sex is something, and I dont mind at all if a guy does not want to give it to me.