I voted for both. Although visual is a big part of my facination (pardon the pun). I've said this before, but it's worth saying again - NOTHING is sexier than a long thick soft cock. Can make me wet faster than anything, including clit stimulation...etc.

In regards to penetration, I think it's that inital stretch that feels the best. This may sound weird, but I like for it to almost hurt as it's going in, and then as you start to stretch and move around being filled up is just amazing. Sometimes he will raise his hips while he's inside me, and lift my ass up off the bed....all that power, and masculinity just drives me wild. I can't imagine someone w/ a small tool being able to do that?? But then again, I wouldn't know. Another thing that I like (again, may be weird) is to actually be sore the next day from sex. Not like so sore that I can't walk, but a little tender down there, tingly, stretched maybe a little raw and oh so sensitive.

And that's why I love big cocks :-) Thanks for letting me share.....