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I am currently in the process of moving, i will be leaving Arizona on Wednesday March 14th 2007. I need to leave here. I am leaving an abusive relationship, he is more verbally abusive than

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Old 03-12-2007   #1 (permalink)
nakedwally is offline
Exclamation Moving to Florida

I am currently in the process of moving, i will be leaving Arizona on Wednesday March 14th 2007. I need to leave here. I am leaving an abusive relationship, he is more verbally abusive than anything but has hit me several times, it is getting to the point where i am shaking so bad i want to puke all the time. My mother says you need to come home. so that's what i am doing, i am very scared, and i just needed to let this out. I appreciate everyone's support. I don't think anyone should have to put up with abuse. Thanx,WALLY L
 
Old 03-12-2007   #2 (permalink)
Kotchanski is online now

Hon, we've spoken before and you're doing the right thing.

It's never an easy thing getting out of abusive relationships, and rebuilding your confidence once you're out might be the hardest part. Just remember to let your friends and family in you're going to be needing them
 
Old 03-12-2007   #3 (permalink)
dxjnorto is offline

Sorry to hear about that Wally. I'm glad you're getting out.
 
Old 03-12-2007   #4 (permalink)
Pirate Wench is offline

I'm sorry to hear that you've had that trouble, Wally.....
Words Can hit like fists......I am familiar with that.....

You're doing the right thing to leave......

Does he have your mom's phone number ?
Maybe have her get an unlisted number ?

And maybe you should get a new cell phone number.

I think it would be worth the hassle just to have peace of mind.

I hope your move goes smoothly....and your life will get better.......just give it some time......

Best of luck to you !

{{{HUG}}}
 
Old 03-12-2007   #5 (permalink)
davidjh7 is offline

You deserve, and can get, much better. NOBODY has the right to hit you, unless they are defending their own lives because you are trying to hurt them. I get so angry at abuse--physical, emotional, any kind. NO matter what, it is inexcusable. My dear boy, go home, heal, and then move on with your life. Much joy and love awaits you in your life ahead, I am confident of that! You have SO much going for you, and so many people who do, and will appreciate and love you for YOU< all of you, and treasure their time with you, and count themselves lucky to be with you. NEVER believe for a second you ever "deserved" it, no matter what! NOBODY deserves to be hit by their lover! He is worthless scumsucker for hurting you this way, and I hope he gets what HE deserves! Take some solace in the fact that if you are patient enough assholes will generally fuck themselves over far worse than you ever could, if you just give them time. HUGS! Keep in touch with your family here, and remember we are here for you!
 
Old 03-12-2007   #6 (permalink)
prepstudinsc is offline

No one deserves to be abused. You're doing the right thing.
 
Old 03-12-2007   #7 (permalink)
DaveyR is offline

Well done Wally on making the right decision. Get out stay out and move forward.

Keep us up to date on things once you get settled in Florida. Good luck to you - you deserve better.
 
Old 03-12-2007   #8 (permalink)
COLJohn is offline

You can't get out of there fast enough, Wally. To stay in a toxic relationship makes no sense. Hope the move is relatively painless and we hear good things from you soon. J
 
Old 03-12-2007   #9 (permalink)
trufitjock is offline

GET THE HELL OUTTA THERE... ive been there..had an ex that was a retired marine and cop.. couldnt seem to keep his hands to himself.. its hard to escape.. look me up when you get to florida?? where are you going?? im me... and we'll talk
 
Old 03-12-2007   #10 (permalink)
Dave NoCal is offline

My recommendationis to leave in secret, if possible. Creeps like him are into power and they sometimes escalate when their victims take charge of their own lives. Also, I agree. Make sure he doesn't have a way of reaching your mom or you.
 
Old 03-12-2007   #11 (permalink)
nakedwally is offline

right now i am getting ready for the move, packing and cleaning and doing all this stuff, my friend in florida bought me a bus ticket early this morning, i will leave wednesday afternoon, thank you for everyones help, concern, love, and kindness
 
Old 03-12-2007   #12 (permalink)
Rihanna is offline

I'm with dxjnorto. I'm sorry to here it also. Good news is that Florida can be a wonderful place. Go to a part that's really nice!
 
Old 03-12-2007   #13 (permalink)
nakedwally is offline

i used to live in florida so i am going somewhere i know, and yes florida is a great place
 
Old 03-12-2007   #14 (permalink)
Pecker is offline

WTG, Wally. Whatever you do, don't let anybody change your mind.

Godspeed.
 
Old 03-12-2007   #15 (permalink)
nakedwally is offline

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WTG, Wally. Whatever you do, don't let anybody change your mind.

Godspeed.

Thanx Pecker you are one of the greatest
 

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