Yeah well, the first time I was with a guy, me and this chick and another guy fell asleep drunk in the same bed. I knew he was gay and attracted to me, and he was good looking, so when he woke me up errr touching me I sort of expected it. Honestly I knew things were gonna go in that direction; both of them were interested in me, but I was sort of more interested in the guy cuz I'd never done that before. As you can imagine, it's hard to fuck a guy without some planning in advance, but we looked around in her parents house (this was back in highschool mind you) and found something that could, uhhh, pass for lubrication. I mean this was after the usual shit, oral and all that. It was quite an experience. I was all trying to be gentle on him cuz I wasn't really that knowledgable about, you know, ass fucking, but he clearly wanted it harder. I just couldn't believe I was fucking him as hard as I'd fuck a girl, especially considering that most girls take a while to get used to me. Damn! Just thinking about it kind of turns me on, though it was about ten years ago now. It's funny: my first time with a man--I was in the dominant position but I think I learned a lot from him!