Men being raped?

Male rape (men being the victims of rape) doesn't happen very often, but I have heard that it does happen.

I was just wondering how this would work. Can anyone speak out of experience, or does anyone know of some man who has unfortunately been a victim of rape?

Note: I'm not referring to male-on-male sex in prison, nor am I referring to pederasty (older men having intercourse with young boys).

So how do adult men get raped? Do women gang up on some handsome, hung man and force themselves upon him? Or is it perpetrated mostly by other men??

I'm genuinely interested in understanding this sad phenomenon. Thank you for your serious and sincere responses.

Hi Big,

There has been lots of in depth discussions about this subject already.

To be honest, I'm not sure that I am ready to describe (re-live) my ordeal, and others may feel the same way.

I've already posted mine, and several others have as well. There was a heated thread just a couple of months ago on the subject. It wasn't pretty; drove some away, turned some sour on the site, relieved a couple, brought out support from a good handful, and at least one temporary banning came out of it.

I'd strongly suggest using the "search" function on this one.

While living in Sydney, Australia, I heard of a few which do not pertain to the following circumstances:

Older men on young boys
Men raping other men in prison

It is a very interesting question. I've heard of stories where gay men raped other gay men. None of the stories involved a gay man who raped a straight man. That said, I know very little about this. I'm just saying this because I lived in a huge gay community where male-on-male rape stories floated around from time to time.

Note: This is a most serious topic which should be discussed with great senstivity out of respect for any victims who may read or participate in the thread.

Men can be coerced into having sex just like women. They can be date raped with drugs or without. Men are less likely to consider something rape then a woman and FAR less likely to report if even if they do consider it rape.

Rape doesn't always have to be sex involving the erect penis. Keep that in mind. And even if it does for your definition of rape, it isn't always possible to control your body's responses.

I have read many times over the years that more men are raped by women than women raped by men. They say most men dont report it. It makes sense that a man wouldnt go to the police for fear of being laughed at. This happens more than we think..........

maybe cause they'd be laughed out, or cause they liked it heh
Reminds me of a scene from a sitcom
On the police...
Policeguy: So you were raped?
Guy: YES!
Policeguy: How did the guy look?
Guy: It was a women!
Policeguy: A women?
Guy: 5 Women! Tall women!
Policeguy: All 5 raped you? And ehhh can you describe them?
Guy: It was a basketball team!

I did a search for "male rape" here and 207 threads came up, none of which really deal with the issue presented here.

Novice or fantasize, could you point to the other threads on this subject? I would be very interested to read them.

Having looked over your past thread topics (68 out of your 114 posts, were topics begun by you) it is clear you are doing this mainly just to get your jollies.

You have presented us with M2M action in the locker room, M2M sex in prison, the ever popular "can't str8 men be just a little gay" which was followed by "how can a man be 1% gay" In the majority of the threads you have started, you close with 'love to hear your stories'--you however fail to ever add any comments later on after people have related their experiences.

As has been indicated, if you really care to learn more about male rape--all forms of it--get off your lazy ass and use the search function here as well as using various internet search engines.


And for those who shall now attack me for calling BigDk on his crap--it was something which needed to be done and I really don't care if you like it or not. I see no reason to continue suffering these sorts of individuals.

Onslow, I am not calling you on the overall attack, but I think "use the search function" is not fair. You do start to come across like the thread police. Lighten up.

Maybe I'm a total retard, but I did use the search function (as I wrote in the post directly above yours) and I can't find the thread Novice and Fantasize are referring to.

I started a thread about sexual assualt and rape some time ago.

Break the Silence

Thanks, Lex. You STUD!

A)Use the search function is quite fair--it is there for a reason. If after using it, the poster truly cannot find anything on the subject, then they should say so (as you have).
B)No, I will not 'lighten up'--this is a matter which has been discussed ad infinitum and as novice_btm indicated it became extremely heated and drove folks away. There were many insensitive comments made at the times--not just ignorant. Ignorance can be tolerated, if a person is genuinely interested in learning. Insensitivity, especially when put forth with but one goal; that being, to rile, provoke and create an air of tension and hatred, is not to be tolerated.

Further, I looked into the topic starters previous posts for a reason--not to police him; but to see if I could get a better handle on who he is--where are his thoughts in general. Is he a sensitive sort or some lout who has a history of baiting people. I suppose since I am not one of the persons here with the 'favored' status, I have erred to an egregious extent. I must remember that only the la-di-das are allowed to question anyone.(and do not even try to deny that there is a system of favoritism here)

Well I for one thank you.

As some know, the topic of rape is one very close to me, including that of male rape which is something which a very close family member was a victim of. I find myself in 2 minds when it comes to threads like this, on the one hand I want to avoid them, I don't want to be reminded of all that has happened on the other hand I can't stay away knowing that (in most cases so far) insensitive aholes are coming to the threads and hurting very good people.

I don't have all the time in the world to read through the posts of everyone partaking in a thread before deciding which way to read things, I'm sure many others don't either. Most of us are regular enough around here to already know how things are meant by each other, and react accordingly, but not everyone. The things you point out from his past postings are helpful when it comes to reading the person, we can't hear a tone of voice and must base of lot of what we read on what has been said previously in other places.

Before I'm shot.. I'm not saying we should read Onslows post about the OP and all jump in and attack the guy, I'm saying that he for very genuine reasons checked up a little on his history to see what type of guy he was, and found a few things which gave him concern, he has left those concerns for each of us to judge ourselves, nothing more, nothing less, so lets give Onslow a break and not start another public hanging

Anytime handsome.