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Originally Posted by nudeyorker  Open him up slowly with your finger(s) then, get some silicone toys that will slowly open him up. then work in a harder bigger dildo, until he's ready for you! |
Nudenewyorker has the right idea. I would suggest anal beads, butt plugs, or small dildos. My ex had a huge penis and when we had sex i had to sort of work up to it. It took a lot of time for me to feel comfortable but he was patient. If you think you can hold the erection just try going in a teeny bit at a time. While you're waiting for him to adjust, give him a massage, make out with him, anything to take his mind off your dick and he'll loosen up quicker. The other really important thing, is that when you are loosening him up... if he can't take you this time don't. It's most important for you to loosen him up consistently like once a week then to force it all in one session. It will help him gain more elasticity and retain it better if you try consistently. I hope that's clear and helpful. Lemme know if anything needs elaboration! oh, and good luck
