I guess you could say I've had sex on the first date but it'd be hard to classify them as dates to begin with. They were online hookups. I know, me = lame! The only one that really was a date was with Nikki and I don't know whether that qualifies as sex on the first date or not. We'd been friends for years and hung out plenty of times. We just consider that first time we fooled around (not actually had sex but close enough) as our first date since it was the only thing that changed from our friendship.