Lasting TOO Long

BlackCock85 · 02-17-2007

So I know you've all heard about a person that just doesnt last long enough during sex.....my problem is I last too long. Because I have a fairly large penis, my partner usually can't take me for a long time...so I usually get "are you close?" and of course I feel bad because I'm fucking the poor guy's brain out that I take it out and we jerk off together........but even then I still can't get myself to bust. Only after a bunch of jerking can I finally cum, does anybody else have this problem and perhaps does anybody have any solutions as to how to cum faster?

Punisher · 02-17-2007

I have this issue often.. I tend to fuck for quite a long time, and being un-naturally hung, the poor girl can't handle it for as long as I'd like.

I've come to savor slow, deep penetrative sex much more than all-out fucking, however.. which has satiated the problem, which wasn't all that problematic in the first place. :) I get off every time this method, and the lucky lady on the receiveing end does so as well.. about a dozen or so times (lol).

justmeincal · 02-17-2007

Blackcock and Punisher, are you guys fucking with condoms? I have the same problem if I use a condom. Luckily, I'm in a relationship, so don't have to use them.

Punisher · 02-17-2007

I'm like that when I DON'T use a condom. If I'm using one at the time, I last indefinitely.

justmeincal · 02-17-2007

It's strange how we are all so different. Without a condom I have to pace myself to not shoot off quickly. Wearing a condom, I can go forever though. What's strange is that the few times I have jacked myself off wearing a condom, I can cum pretty fast.

BlackCock85 · 02-17-2007

Condom or No Condom.....same deal, like when I jerk off alone I can cum in like 1min if I wanted....but not in these situations, and he's usually ready to bust but is holding back for me......until he can't hold it anymore lol.

justmeincal · 02-17-2007

BC, Have you ever tried watching porn while you fuck your partner? For me, watching porn gets me closer to shooting quicker.

CokecanBen9 · 02-17-2007

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Originally Posted by justmeincal

It's strange how we are all so different. Without a condom I have to pace myself to not shoot off quickly. Wearing a condom, I can go forever though. What's strange is that the few times I have jacked myself off wearing a condom, I can cum pretty fast.

Im the exact same way man.

bigboy7 · 02-17-2007

I have the same problem. Although, my current partner can't take me, so he masterbates me. But, I just can't ejaculate. Even when I masterbate when having sex with him I can't ejaculate. Almost everytime with him he would eventually ejeculate and that would be the end of the session. Only once have I ejeculated with him and that was because I masterbated myself for an EXTREMELY long time and he now feels bad because he can't get me off.

Murci_EC · 02-17-2007

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Originally Posted by Punisher

I'm like that when I DON'T use a condom. If I'm using one at the time, I last indefinitely.

I have the same problem! I will go for hours until I get tired and eventually go soft. IT sucks!

justmeincal · 02-17-2007

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Originally Posted by Murci_EC

I have the same problem! I will go for hours until I get tired and eventually go soft. IT sucks!

That's interesting. I'm now in my early fifties and still have to pace myself from cumming too soon. Have any of you guys ever discussed this with your doctor?

jkazjkaz · 02-17-2007

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Originally Posted by justmeincal

It's strange how we are all so different. Without a condom I have to pace myself to not shoot off quickly. Wearing a condom, I can go forever though. What's strange is that the few times I have jacked myself off wearing a condom, I can cum pretty fast.

Ditto!

BlackCock85 · 02-17-2007

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Originally Posted by Murci_EC

I have the same problem! I will go for hours until I get tired and eventually go soft. IT sucks!

While on that subject, I have another problem...I'll be fucking have a great time and I'll just go limp.....happens usually if we switch positions to like missionary, I hate when that happens...usually if I jerk it for awhile it does get hard again but it's annoying.

justmeincal · 02-17-2007

Ok guys, are you the same with oral sex. I read on here before how some guys have trouble cumming when they get a blow job.

Blow jobs are my downfall. If I'm getting good head, I have a really hard time lasting more than a couple minutes.

So do you have the same problems with blowjobs as you do with fucking?

BlackCock85 · 02-17-2007

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Originally Posted by justmeincal

Ok guys, are you the same with oral sex. I read on here before how some guys have trouble cumming when they get a blow job.

Blow jobs are my downfall. If I'm getting good head, I have a really hard time lasting more than a couple minutes.

So do you have the same problems with blowjobs as you do with fucking?

Sometimes, other times I am able to get off from head/handjob...other times I just have to take matters into my own hands, guess that's what happens when you start jerking off at such an early age. I just want to be able to bust while I'm deep inside my guy's ass