Size queens = submissives?

Of course I'm not saying all of them are, but from reading the doggystyle thread, it seems pretty common. For the women on here, do you think you're more submissive, especially in bed, than most women? Is part of the appeal for a big dick that it makes the man more masculine and in charge?

Speaking for myself, yes. One of the major components of my attraction to large penises is that I like to feel very submissive to the man attached to it.

They're probably not all submissive but in my experience some of them like the guy to take charge. When I started getting into older women it was weird with the ones who were into me being on top and being in charge, because you just sort of expect the older woman to be some kind of teacher or something, but some of them like you to be in control. It's kind of hot actually and it was kind of freaky but now that I have some experience and I know what I'm doing it's just hot.

I am by no means submissive. Sure I like being uncontrollably ravaged but more than anything I love to be in control. I like the feeling of being the master of that mountain of meat. Seriously though, I can't speak for every woman hear but having a man that will allow me to get on top and take control is the best thing that ever happend to me!

Brit

Can I call it hawt?

Size queen but definitely not submissive. We don't have to be on top to be in charge :)

i agree with girls. To be size queens does not mean to be submisive at all. A got a gf once a 5 years older than me..man she rode me like hell and like to be on top but in the moment i decided to take charge she goes mad the same way.So submisive and size queens are 2 tottaly different things for me.

Someone mentioned they thought older women would automatically want to be incharge as a "teacher" of sorts, but his experience with them was different than that.

My theory is probably not too far off the mark.
Any woman who has a lot of control in other parts of her life......likes losing it in this area particularly.

I know a woman who's married and they live in the home she owns from her previous marraige.
She is capable of paying cash for her own vehicles when she trades in for a new one.
Financially independant.

What would turn her on ?
Fantasy rape......(not trying to start another discussion on that)
Such as......
Getting dragged off, her clothes ripped off, and fucked until she couldn't walk right.

Sorry but size queens=submissives ..just because of doggystyle liking???

Makes no sense to me.

People who enjoy deep penetration positions enjoy doggy and they come in all sizes, averages vaginas and penises leading the 'auau' parade.

Nope. Yin and Yang all the way.

With only issue with size queens is with those whose eyes are too big for their orifices!

I'm with Lee_M 110%!
Giving in to my man doesn't mean I'm never on top.

I also agree with pirate wench maybe 10%.

Not saying she's wrong just saying I'm not necessarily thinking about the fact I make more than him, shoot better pool than him, or am tops in my field when I'm in bed with some lucky man.

I am quite troubled by the notion that submissive=violent sex acts. One has absolutely nothing to do with the other.

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Originally Posted by Lee_M No better feeling in the world than the weight of a mans naked hot, sweaty body on top of me giving me the best fuck of my life..Laying there in sheer aww at how good he feels inside of me. The look of determination on his face as he sees he is about to make me cum

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Originally Posted by piratewench Any woman who has a lot of control in other parts of her life......likes losing it in this area particularly.

In the thread on this board, a lot of women who said they liked doggy liked it because it made them feel more submissive. I wanted to see if this extended to big dick lovers in general.

I've never known a size queen. I have had a fleeting knowledge of a submissive.

Submission can be quite a nebulous concept. Demonstrating an unusual degree of fortitude in testing limits can be a power trip in itself.

I knew one woman who prided herself in her capacity to deal with extremes of behaviour and physicality and seemed genuinely bored when not pushing roleplaying to an extent that few would match, yet she never doubted that the trust she shared with her lovers was a testament to her ubiquitous strength and her ownership of the act of consent and permission. She had her personal desires and erotic pushbuttons and realized the enjoyment of them with like-minded people. She was fascinated with offering challenges by accepting the limits that those in the role of control permitted themselves to explore. She never saw her role as a submissive as anything other than an act of honesty about herself and as an essential expression of what she wanted. Consent to play was about parity. It required mutual respect.

It had little to nothing to do with dick size. She certainly wasn't a size queen. She did like her men to have a type of candour and willingness to act without self censorship. Women were different to her. She was attracted to those who accepted she was the dom with them.