I need to address this interesting topic more fully. I'm in a bit of a rush just now alex but this is indeed an interesting topic and worthy of real discussion.

I have an internet response and a real life one to recount.

For the moment suffice it to say that I have experienced the same thing you have re this site and "hetero" male come ons. I've had to simply ignore certain members. Beyond that I have a friend in Manchester England who I met on Yahoo cams last summer and, though he swears up and down, he's 100% heterosexual, I find him pming me often when I sign onto yahoo because he says my 'chat' can get him off better than any female. Go figure.

He's 22 an auto mechanic and is perfectly amazing to look at. When I've asked.. before our cam session... if we were to meet in England and end up at his house for a night if we'd actually be able to do the things I describe while we're having "virtual sex" he says invariably and without equivocation. ''No. I'm not into guys. I just like how into my cock you are." But remember he's watching me too.

I was married for a short time in my early 20s (yes, to a woman). Her brother became my off-again-on-again lover almost immediately and his and my relationship long outlived the one I had with his sister. He's married now with a 13 year old son. I'm convinced he's never had sex with another male. He's honest enough to have admitted it to me long ago if he had and goodness knows I've asked him plenty of times. Yet (to this day) when we get together - and that's infrequent since he lives nine hours from me - the sexual energy is palpable and when we make love (notice I did not say "have sex") it's unmitigatedly passionate. It has an "out of body" quality to it in fact.

No one knows of our sexual connection. Wait, not true. Two people were told of it but believe it's a thing of the past. It's not. If I see him only twice a year both of those times we'll be intimate. (How 'Brokeback' of me)

For the life of me... there's a monstrous piece of me that loves him in spite of my committed love for my boyfriend.

"Dan" and I are an entity unto ourselves.