I can pretty much say no to showing it off, as I have mentioned before I am a little embarassed by it, I'm a "shower" I guess, as at normal flacid length its about 5 inches, and only grows to 9.5 when erect, I only rarely have taken pride in my size, at least in public, one time after a corporate golf tournament my big cock swinging boss was in the shower at the same time as me, turns out he wasn't all that big of a cock swinger after all, it felt good, but on most occasions not so much.