It's perfectly okay. He likes it, and so do you. But the thing is, you have made certain promises to certain people, some expressed, others implied. You must ask yourself if you are doing what's best for your family. A man protects his family and puts them first. For a man, his family is his chief motivator. Ask yourself if you are a man. If you are, you need to know how your wife would respond to you seeing a prostitute. Essentially, this is what you are doing. You need to know how your wife would respond to you sharing your body with someone outside of your relationship. Hey, some women don't care, as long as you come home. If she would not respond well to this, then you are violating your vows, and not protecting your family. My mother always said, "I'm the most important person in your life. If you do something you have to lie to me about, you're doing the wrong thing." As other people became the most important in my life (I, and at one point a man I was going to marry) I applied that same concept to us. Grown-ups don't always get to do what feels good when it has potentially negative impact. Frankly, there would be trouble if I found out my husband was accepting random, blowjobs. If he did it without a condom, he'd be telling his coworkers he walked into a door.