faking cumming

Black&Strong · 02-08-2007

ladies, how often do u fake it? is seex enjoyable even if u dont cum? fellas, can u tell when a chick fakes it?

DJG · 02-08-2007

I have tried faking it, it didn't work out so well, it was like that scene in '40 days and 40 nites'

Black&Strong · 02-08-2007

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Originally Posted by DJG

I have tried faking it, it didn't work out so well, it was like that scene in '40 days and 40 nites'

lmao, guys fake it too? didnt know that, didnt know they could, it was hilarious when josh hartnet tried to hurry up and throw the condom away btw,lol

DJG · 02-08-2007

yeah, I have tried to fake it several times... sometimes im not very horny.. and 'the chick' is fiending for cock, so I will stuff her for like 45 minutes until she is all 'cummed out' and I will fake it.. and just go to sleep.

SassySpy · 02-08-2007

Yep. Guilty. Faked it. More than once, but not with myself. Tried, seemed I just didn't believe me.

And yeah- sometimes cos the guy is so hell bent on thinking if 'she doesn't cum, she didn't enjoy it' and no matter how many times Ive said its not true- guys seem to think its a got to have kind of thing. Its not, cos sometimes I am just enjoying the physical closeness, the sensations of him and his body and his enjoyment- I want to immerse myself in him and not worry about an orgasm for me at times- I end up just as content and satiated as if I'd cum 1/2 a dozen times- but only had 1 man in my life who understood and accepted it, so I never had to fake with him.
and if I fake, I fake very well. I challenge any man to be able to tell the difference

DJG · 02-08-2007

also.. when I am with a new girl.. I usually can NEVER cum the first time we have sex..
go figure.
I end up jerking off for her, but thats hot too :)

AAALady · 02-08-2007

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Originally Posted by SassySpy

Yep. Guilty. Faked it. More than once, but not with myself. Tried, seemed I just didn't believe me.

ROFL! I HAVE faked it, but very, very rarely. Sometimes, early on, I knew I wasn't going to climax, so I faked it so we could go to sleep.

But faking it is like rewarding poor performance: it doesn't help teach your partner how to arouse you. So early on, especially, it shouldn't be used unless nesessary.

Nowadays, we're comfortable with each other and both aware of our bodies. He knows that there are just some times when it isn't gonna happen, and he knows I can tell early in the final stretch.

So, there are times when I tell him to go ahead and have a good time, and I'll catch up with him another time.

danerain · 02-08-2007

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Originally Posted by DJG

also.. when I am with a new girl.. I usually can NEVER cum the first time we have sex..
go figure.
I end up jerking off for her, but thats hot too :)

Dude, if you were a little more gay, I could fix that

HollyBlue · 02-08-2007

Yes, I did fake it sometimes as a teenager. I was so insecure about my performance sometimes that I couldn't orgasm...but wanted the guy to know he had been great, if he had.

Since I was plenty experienced with real orgasms, I think I was pretty good at faking them. But I still think any experienced man would know the difference. The complex fluttering of a woman's vaginal muscles during orgasm is unmistakable, IMO.

I do a type of Kegel that involves a fluttering motion, and I've gotten pretty good at it, but it still wouldn't be confused with what my pussy does during orgasm (at least not by anyone who knew the difference).

njqt466 · 02-08-2007

I agree with Sassy Spy!

I hate when the guy considers it his mission in life to make me cum. That's when I start to fake it just to get him off me.

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And yeah- sometimes cos the guy is so hell bent on thinking if 'she doesn't cum, she didn't enjoy it' and no matter how many times Ive said its not true- guys seem to think its a got to have kind of thing. Its not, cos sometimes I am just enjoying the physical closeness, the sensations of him and his body and his enjoyment- I want to immerse myself in him and not worry about an orgasm for me at times- I end up just as content and satiated as if I'd cum 1/2 a dozen times

faceking · 02-08-2007

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Originally Posted by DJG

yeah, I have tried to fake it several times... sometimes im not very horny.. and 'the chick' is fiending for cock, so I will stuff her for like 45 minutes until she is all 'cummed out' and I will fake it.. and just go to sleep.

nice vernacular... um, stud. i've faked it a few times, when I was younger and stupid. now I just go again... may as well. but if everything wet down-under.... it's not hard to do... and she may not know if you are a dribbler or a shooter....

faceking · 02-08-2007

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Originally Posted by HollyBlue

Yes, I did fake it sometimes as a teenager. I was so insecure about my performance sometimes that I couldn't orgasm...but wanted the guy to know he had been great, if he had.

Since I was plenty experienced with real orgasms, I think I was pretty good at faking them. But I still think any experienced man would know the difference. The complex fluttering of a woman's vaginal muscles during orgasm is unmistakable, IMO.

I do a type of Kegel that involves a fluttering motion, and I've gotten pretty good at it, but it still wouldn't be confused with what my pussy does during orgasm (at least not by anyone who knew the difference).

Fluttering... is that voluntary or involuntary... props if its' the former...

BremerChick · 02-08-2007

So we can pretty much gather that everyone about has done it atleast once. Although that would bother me if i didnt make a guy cum , its possible that happened but i dont think so but then again maybe im not hot enuff or as sexually arousing I mean. Well from now on im gonna make every guy pull out and cum on my face no more lieing u cheapos i want proof.. lol ill think about it

danerain · 02-08-2007

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Originally Posted by BremerChick

So we can pretty much gather that everyone about has done it atleast once. Although that would bother me if i didnt make a guy cum , its possible that happened but i dont think so but then again maybe im not hot enuff or as sexually arousing I mean. Well from now on im gonna make every guy pull out and cum on my face no more lieing u cheapos i want proof.. lol ill think about it

But wouldn't that freak 'em out and make it harder for them to cum?

SassySpy · 02-08-2007

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Originally Posted by HollyBlue

Yes, I did fake it sometimes as a teenager. I was so insecure about my performance sometimes that I couldn't orgasm...but wanted the guy to know he had been great, if he had.

Since I was plenty experienced with real orgasms, I think I was pretty good at faking them. But I still think any experienced man would know the difference. The complex fluttering of a woman's vaginal muscles during orgasm is unmistakable, IMO.

I do a type of Kegel that involves a fluttering motion, and I've gotten pretty good at it, but it still wouldn't be confused with what my pussy does during orgasm (at least not by anyone who knew the difference).

THAT is exactly what I've done, lol- and I guess the big diff here Holly, is that I haven't been with someone who knew the difference between my able muscles and the involuntary rapid contractions of the real thing. The one thing I can't fake, is the squirting, when it happens-