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Originally Posted by jeff black  Sure, I understand what you are saying. However, not everyone is as good with voicing their responses to a compliment. Some people are only comfortable with saying, "thank you".
Personally, I blush and get a bit embarassed when people compliment myself and I know I am not the only person here who reacts like that. Having said that, What should a response be? Is saying, " Thanks for the nice compliment" not enough? Should I say " Yah man, I appreciate that. You know, I was looking at your cock the other day and I blew so hard that there is a hole in my wall now." 
My point is just simple. Not everyone knows how to respond to such kind words from people. |
no doubt, but that's something else i wish we could all get better at, accepting compliments. the other day it was "national accept a compliment day". most of us are so wrapped up in our own whirlwinds of self-doubt and less than stellar self-images that we can't even accept geniune and sincere attempts at praise by those who appreciate us.
so i was just coming at it from the other side too, in that yeah, when you're in that heat of the moment and you REALLY like something or someone and you finally get the balls to give a compliment, to hear "oh, that's sweet" (despite the responder's own personal self-image issues) comes as a blow to the giver to a degree. "dang, here i was all caught up in this, and i'm just viewed as 'sweet' or 'nice'..."
i think we're near the same page here, but from opposite sides of the sheet
and as for lists of who we 'use', i'll put jeff black and think kink on there
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I didn't click on the link.
