People who fantasize about you while masturbating

ONB · 02-05-2007

i've stayed in touch with several of my ex's... and several of them have mentioned that they still fantisize about me. it is a nice ego boost... but its not the reason i have stayed friendly with them.

i also had an old co-worker of mine who found out about my size... and though we never hooked up, told me not too long ago that she fantisizes about me quite often. is very harmless as she knows i'm in a happy and serious relationship... but it is nice to know.

sk_bum · 02-05-2007

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Yes.

Yes.

well yes mercurial, right now actually

dudepiston · 02-05-2007

Yep I've done this, and I've been told others have 'used' me that way, too. My next question usually is "why??" :) But, it's still cool to hear. Have to be careful about who ya fantasize about though - it might end up causing you to send a 'vibe' to that person which can be good or bad!

hung · 02-05-2007

No one has ever told me that.

nudeyorker · 02-05-2007

yes...I've had a few people tell me this. The only one that is a little scary is ...I play Raquet ball with a straight friend a couple days a week. Whenever he calls me he says that he was thinking about me in the shower when he was all hot, wet and soapy.
He's married...Fun BS or should I be worried. (he is my best friend) (who is straight)
Any thoughts?

PhilaWelHung · 02-05-2007

Yes, and vise versa, yes...

Kotchanski · 02-05-2007

I've been told by a few people that they often think of me during "alone times" I'm not sure I believe them, think its more likely to be their way of complimenting me and giving me an ego boost. Having said that I've thought more than once of a guy on these boards to help things along, but I've only ever told him jokingly about this

nathangsm · 02-05-2007

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Originally Posted by Jovial

Has anyone you weren't involved with ever told you they fantasize about you while masturbating [. . .]?

Yeah, I have, but 3 out of 4 times, I would rather they had kept that to themselves...

krazedpirate · 02-05-2007

a few times people have said looking at my pictures, and one ex said she always thought of me :-), guess I did something right?

Think_Kink · 02-05-2007

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Originally Posted by sk_bum

yes

Gee.... *cough* reminds me of something I said once....

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Apparently according to some, many use my pictures to get off... I was challenged to put a poll up about it.. but I decided against it.

jeff black · 02-05-2007

I've had 3 or 4 people tell me they have jerked off watching my videos or looking at my pictures. It's always flattering to hear. Half the time, I just chuckle. It's like kotchanski said. I think they are being sweet.

As for my masturbating, I tend to think of the same person everytime. It's always kinda hot when it is the same person, you explore all these new options.

sk_bum · 02-05-2007

and when you're masturbating, do you think its "sweet"?

i don't know, i kinda think the attitude that other people genuinely finding you very attractive, erotic, exciting, to the point that they cum thinking about you is worthy of something more than being called "sweet". the humility is duly noted though.

jeff black · 02-05-2007

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Originally Posted by sk_bum

and when you're masturbating, do you think its "sweet"?

i don't know, i kinda think the attitude that other people genuinely finding you very attractive, erotic, exciting, to the point that they cum thinking about you is worthy of something more than being called "sweet". the humility is duly noted though.

When I said "sweet" sk_bum.... I meant that they were being kind, or nice, making a compliment to another person. If someone can look at anothers pictures and get off, it is fucking hot.

Is that a better explaination for you?

Onslow · 02-05-2007

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Originally Posted by Jovial

Has anyone you weren't involved with ever told you they fantasize about you while masturbating (or while having sex with someone else)?

Or have you heard about someone fantasizing about you while masturbating or having sex from someone he or she told?

For me it would be a big turn-on or ego boost to hear that. I assume there have been women or men that have fantasized about me while getting off, but I was never told, so I can't be certain.

Thanks for any replies!

Why yes. Just the othere night as I was sleeping I was awakened by the jangle of the phone. It was Sean Connery telling me how he was fantasizing about me at that moment.

sk_bum · 02-05-2007

but they're not intending it to BE sweet, just as you're not feeling sweet, or kind, when you stroke to someone else. just saying if i tell someone "man, your pics had me so hot i came looking at them", and the response i get is "oh, that's sweet!". that's really a bath of icy cold water.

is that a better explanation for you?