Men what makes you lose interest in a fuckbuddy?

I dig older women and love the fuckbuddy set up, but it can get messy after a while. I've only had one fuckbuddy that lasted more than a month or so...the secret is that we see one another infrequently, by design. I think if we saw each other more than every few weeks it would turn into a relationship type set up and that's not what we want.

I am so sorry...my bad. No offense intended.

no need to say sorry (if you're replying to my post), I wasnt responding to anyones' post specifically, just throwing my two cents in

DGirl, it could also be that you weren't lucky. I could say the same of some of the women I've dated. Are all or a lot of women like that? Heck no! It's never good to generalise.

I have no problem with the words 'teaching', 'learning' and 'showing', but when I hear the word 'training', my blood boils. What ever happened to spontaneity, imagination and passion? Training is for pets/animals, the gym-- in my opinion, it has no place in the bedroom, the cabin, the garden, etc.

Yes, it's all mine (and not just for show).

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Right off the bat, let me just tell you what I've inferred so far.
You met him online, right? the sex was good at 3x's a week, 90 mins per session?
Now it approaches the point where one want's to take a step further, & the other doesn't, right?IE,you didn't want & he did.
That might've started a carnal catalyst so to speak.


Yeah, dig it, if he was with another woman when he was with you, then odds are back together & he & she are probably he'in & she'in behind your back.
Plus the fact that there's 40 miles away, and the carnal visits have been limited to your place.
Ah! but, here's where you have home court advantage; you made it clear what really wanted out of this honestly & without hesitation, & thus far he hasn't.
I'd find someone else who has the same ideals & wants/not wants in your next fuck buddy relationship, so good luck to you there, njqt.

Answer to your question, I think you know the answers to your questions. 1) I think your buddy may be busy with his profession. 2) He may have found interest in someone else. 3) If you have another buddy, go for it. Practice safe sex though. Sucks getting clemetia from multiple partners.

Hmmn...in my hay day I'd have to say my best fuck buddy's were troubled married women. They would call me up after dealing with the stress of married life and find their escape by making a phone call.
As far as single women, I've only had 2. This was one of those things where we could just chill at the pad, kicking back watching tv or something and then the question would arise. "You feel like fucking?"