I'm just stopping by to say hello. I happened upon this site quite accidently. I was listening to a radio program that talked about Labiaplasty . I am a nurse who does home & birthing center deliveries and I see my share of labia's. So I was wondering what this surgery looked like.

I did a search on the net and found quite a few photos and info on the procedure. I suppose it might be necessary if the lips did become stretched enough to cause pain; and I suppose there could be cosmetic needs.
Yes, I had to grab a mirror and check mine- I seem to be in tip top shape!

However somewhere in the search I found a link to this group. I have to admit that at first I thought it was a joke.
But after some time reading the forums, it appeared that this is more of a place where human sexuality is discussed in a very relaxed, friendly manor.
There surely is a need for that!

On the other hand; my hubby measures somewhere between 8-8.5, but we measured that 20 some years ago when we were first married; and if I remember correctly, we were both laughing at the entire idea. We may have had a few drinks- as I remember,and I was a lot more shy about sex than he.
But it was a different time and there was no net. My husband is a Psychiatrist; so I'm sure he learned the average penis length in med school, but otherwise there was not much info or much discussion about penis size in 'our' every day world anyway.

As far as we were concerned, I know that the first few weeks we had regular intercourse it was tight. Of course we had plenty of lubrication and I had no problem lubricating. Within a month or so I'd adjusted fine and size, or at least width was not an issue anymore.

But to this day I could never sit on him ...unless... I lay forward. There is always a few inches at the base that are just not going to fit without causing me abdominal pain. Not going to fit...period.

One of the easiest positions would be: he behind me; that would allow him to thrust and not worry about how far he might go. We also discovered that a bed such as the air inflated (select comfort) can make a difference. Just as you might suggest a couple use a pillow under her hips to get deeper penetration, if the bed is very soft and her hips sink low, this seems to allow more room simply because the buns are so low. I do like my side of the bed soft, so guess who gets to sleep on the 'wet spot' side most of the time. lol

This is something we initially discovered with our water bed. It was a king with dual bladders (mattresses that held the water) so it allowed each person to fill the bed to the position that they found more comfortable. I always tended to like the softer mattress, while my husband liked it firmer.

As far as penis size and sex; I'm going to have to say that "who that penis is attached to" makes all the difference.
A man who knows something about the female body is surely going to make a difference, and even a young man who has no experience can use the net to look up this info.
I'd also suggest sticking around women's sites and listen to what they discuss amongst themselves;especially when they may feel freer to talk about their body AND you guys!

mumzi