Here's a question for the guys.

I keep stroking, gotta make sure there aren't any more surprise spurts.

my head gets SUPER sensitive as soon as i start cumming... so sensitive that i can barely stand any friction at all. i do, however, keep stroking the shaft to make sure everything shoots out.

I keep stroking for a little bit after I cum. It feels good.

if you pardon the crudity of my answer; you need to get it sll out...if you follow my meaning?!

It depends on how sensitive I am at the moment and how much sensation I want to feel.

I mean, if I really want to tug one out and revel in it, I might hold my cock even harder while coming and continue stroking through my entire orgasm. However, if the sensation gets to be too much and veers over that line between pleasure and pain, then I'll stop completely and shoot all over everything.

NCbear (who is amazed at times how personally he'll answer a question)

When an orgasm begins, I keep on stroking, because it feels sooooo good. And, sometimes if I keep on stroking I can have another orgasm.

I've also found that's it's best to stroke and squeeze my cock as it's going soft to get all the remaining cum out. Otherwise, I tend to leak drops of cum into my underwear which can be uncomfortable, when it dries.

Incidentally, there's nothing worse than to be getting a handjob, and the person doing the stroking stops, when I start to cum. Damn!!!

You can't stop until the job is completely done!

I'll keep one hand at the base, pulling the skin back tight, while I continue to stroke softly. I stop altogether for the first shot, then start stroking again.

And sometimes I'm so sensitive that I can barely stroke at all. It feels like any extra stimulation will make my knees buckle ans cause me to hit my head on the toilet.

Ok women, here's how a man likes to stroke and cum (unless he's in a hurry!):
Stroke right through, never stop!
From the 1st half dozen or so minor contractions when you first feel the cum coming and if you decide to, then keep going into the next half dozen or so deeper more tingling contractions. If you want to prolong your orgasm then you better back off a bit then. Because, when the 6+ big ones start pumping all the juices to your starting gate, then you know it's gonna be mind (and face! ) blowing. With practice, you can even have a mini-ejaculation at this point, even shoot a spurt or 2 but back off, and then start again (takes a ton of patience!). Then, when the huge contractions start again, let loose and let 'er rip! For highest velocity and distance, grip 'er tight but pump away! For more shots keep that frenulum and head stimulated. You oughta be good for at least as many spurting contractions as you had pumping contractions before you started shooting cum and usually more because everything is contracting now. And don't forget those last 3-6 contractions, when the major big shooting has eased off and contractions slowed down, they have a feel of their own. You can feel the last few thick globs of cum working their way out your cock.

When stroking, i usually stop after the cum.... don't know why but i've never continued moving after the jo orgasm.
when having sex i just stop when the orgasm is tooooo strong for me (and sometimes it is ;)), but usually i continue with slow movements, enjoying the moment

I continue to stroke. Personally, I love the "too good" feeling- I find it fun to endure the slight pain for a little extra pleasure. Also it helps me get it all out, after the first few initial spurts I usually have to squeeze out another or else it will continue to leak out for a bit afterwards.

It depends. If I'm throwing caution to the wind and wanting to shoot everyone, I'll stroke right up until climax and then hold the base to get more pressure behind the shot. If maximizing the load doesn't matter, then I'll keep stroking as I'm going through ejaculation.

continue it can continue to a high intensity, and feels good, though I dont see how most don't rub their heads. I think the going back and forth over the lip of the head/shaft is what does the most for me Ive had orgasms where it felt like the head went num from stimulation makes me shake like an epi at the arcade.

I"m usually too sensitive to keep stroking as i'm cumming. I usually run my finger along the bottom of the shaft to help the cum shoot out a little better; if I don't, it makes my pee come out in two separate streams a few minutes later. lol But, the last time I came, I waited a few seconds and then started stroking again and it felt amazing. I'll try it again sometime and let you know if it's something I can do often.

i belong to the select few (well, so far) who stops stroking after cumming. i should try continuing through it. will do tomorrow, if i have the time.