No profile + No Picture = No Communication

WARNING: THIS IS A RANT!!!

You came across as angry, arrogant, and a little dangerous in the chat room. I told you, that you made me feel vulnerable and very uncomfortable. Did you dial it back a notch or try to set my mind at ease? NO! You turned up your alleged charm as if there was no question I should want you.


Being ridicuously well bred, I proceeded in a mannerly fashion. I asked if we lived in the same country or if we were even on the same continent? You did not respond. Instead you chose to ask me what I wanted to know?


You want in my pussy? Then you need to pony up some personal information pronto! First name, age, sexual preference and status (e.g. drug & disease free) Where are you from? A brief dating history. What do you do? Did you go to college? Do you still live in your mothers basement? But no, you thought I should drop trou because of your 9''x6'' dick. AS IF!!!


Bottom Line: it doesn't matter how large your penis is, if you sir are an actual dick; then I want nothing to do with you.

I wasn't there njqt, but gotta say to you- damned well said rant!!

Amen, Sister!!

You go girl. I have allways had pics,profile, etc. You are totally right.....

The women on this site are AWESOME.

yes they are...Bless thier hearts

Great rant! You should use it as your signature.

Yes! Great rant!

I'm sure most of the women on this site have gotten stupid messages or had stupid conversations. The problem really is not the messages themselves. The problem is that they come from people with no pictures, no profile, and virtually no posts, who obviously don't have a fucking clue who we are, and plainly don't want anyone to know who they are!

All they know is we're attractive women, and they think that if they have a big dick (or are pretending to have a big dick, more likely), we will be oh-so-desperate to have cybersex with them!!

These assholes who PM women out of fucking nowhere need a good hard smack upside the head!

Examples of stupid PM's:

• I might even show you my penis... (oh goody!...WTF was he thinking?)
• What's the matter, don't you like big ones? (This after I deleted his first message, which showed 2 really bad fake pictures of impossibly long penises!)
• Hi, babe! How are you? (to which I sent a one-word response: "Married.")

I do want to say, though, that I really like and trust some of the men and women who post regularly on this site. You know who I am, respect my boundaries, and tend to be really fun and interesting people. I like carrying on conversations with you, and you can PM me anytime!

BTW, AmyGirl, ToolMan and I love your new signature!

Amen, of course.
I recently had a gentleman PM me with a battery of about 6 questions. Innocent questions, about a variety of things. Except snuck in there at number 4 was "do you want to have sex?". I just thought that deserved a chuckle.
But yes, certainly a man should realize that even if a woman is looking to hook up online, he must provide some idea of who he is before it happens.

I used to stay out of the chatroom for these very reasons. Now i've learned how to deal with the "please cam for me" dudes who have no information available about themselves. What's interesting to me is many IM me because they've read my posts on the forum, so of course they know something about me and I know squat about them.

Gentlemen, here's a few suggestions for chatting up women:

1. "Hey baby" will get you nowhere.
2. "Hi, how are you?" or something to that effect works much better.
3. Please don't be offended if it takes a little time to respond to you. We're probably chatting with 3 other guys as well as you and we want to give you the attention you may or may not deserve, but that might take a while. Please be patient.
4. Don't ask me if i've met someone else here if you really don't want to know the answer.
5. Don't ask me to compare your cock to the person i've met here if you don't want to know the answer.
6. Please don't ask me for pictures. I have a gallery available for your viewing pleasure.
7. Feel free to ask me anything if you do it with respect.
8. No information=no response
9. If you send photoshopped photos of your cock, I will laugh heartily and delete them immediately. Yes, I can tell.
10. To those who are respectful to me in the chatroom, thank you. You are the ones who make my periodic visits there so very enjoyable.

Ladies, feel free to add to this.

Its not just the women that get these sort of P.M's, I have had one as well. Actually not sure if I should be happy or sad, only one!!!!! Must be doing something wrong lol

Absolutely agree with every word!!

Interesting...I hadn't thought about it from this perspective.

Hear hear!!

This rant applies to ANYONE who's hiding in the shadows on this site. None of us are obligated to talk to you. Give us something to work with so we know what we're getting ourselves into. Empty profiles are creepy.

Way to go - great rant ! I have found that ignoring most of these guys usually works, but I've had a couple who've actually got belligerent when I asked for more info . One kid (and I mean kid - he was around 18) got really pissed at me when I basically said he was too young for me.

Again, thanks! I certainly hope that all of the men on this site with no picture, profile, or posts read this - I think it's pretty clear that we DON'T want to hear from them!

Sugar