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Originally Posted by Hunkguy39 I have raised three boys.My oldest son is 17 years old now.All i wanted to say is that being a single parent especially a man is not the same as having both parents at home, cause lets face it guys all men (fathers or not, adult or teenagers) are all boys and act like boys.
SO as a boy a have needs too. I jerk off when i can and i like having sex when i wanna, My two sons have caught me jerking off a couple of times when i was watching porn over the internet, They both made fun of me telling me stuff like "Hey old man how is it hanging " ,I didnt feel ashamed of been caught but i didnt invite them over to join me.I have caught both my elder sons jacking off too but didnt say anything neither i joined them all i said to them was to make sure the clean their cocks after cumming cause they are both uncut and to be careful not to damage the "goods" lol
My relation with my sons especially the older one is more friendly than a "father-son" relation, we go out in coffee shops together and we talk about girls and women i ve been with and feel free to talk about anything.
I am a nudist too at home too when we are alone in the house.My sons dont seem to have a problem with my behaviour or the way i raised them.
The only problem i have and i would like to discuss in another threat is the fact tha my oldest son thinks all women are whores and he doesnt want to get married, i dont know if he thinks like that because of something i did or not.
Manos
p.s sorry for my English |
Hunkguy39,
I think the way you have raised your sons is admirable.
Obviously your parents did a great job {or you did!}
letting you know what is harmful to children and what isn't acceptable behavior. I don't see anything wrong with your kids "catching you jo "
because your'e not trying to expose them, to some weird behavior you think they should participate in like rippedmuscledad. As for your son having a bad image of woman,look at the way the media portrays some women, and how it objectifies them into sex toys for men to use. I'm sure its very hard to be a single parent, I know it is! Hopefully you will be able to get some kind of therapy to help him with the way he believes woman are "all whores".Of course the media, stereotypes help kids to have these strange ideas that all little girls should look and dress like Britney Spears! I have seen this over and over and I gotta tell you, it makes me sick to see "a five yr.old with a belly shirt and capris on, sporting kiddie make-up and lipstick" I can only think these kind of pictures help get some boys to believe as your son does, that "all women are whores".
God bless you, for bringing up your boys alone and sticking with it, not enough people do this.
Hugs,
Cigarbabe
