The end of a relationship

My size wasn't the entire reason we broke up but it was a main reason. I am not that large. I don't think I am that large. Sex was painful. I am unable to go into any more detail of the breakup because I am still numb from driving back from her house. It's officially over & I am completely heartbroken.

Sometimes having a larget than average d!ck is not a blessing but a curse.

I had to vent a little where no one knows who I am.

sorry bro, heartbreaks are hard as hell to deal with sometimes

don't mope over how you weren't "right" or compatible for her, but think of how greatful you should be that it was broken off before you got even more attached (i know, hard thing to do) and realize that you are compatible with more women than not out there.

Also, she coulda just said that your size was a concern for her because she knows it's something that wouldn't make you feel necessarily bad (it would be an ego boost) but at the same time that was her way of breaking it off. For all you know, if this is the case, she could've loved your cock

Hang out with friends, discover a new hobby or rediscover an old one. When you're ready, jump back into the dating game again. You'll be fine

Sucks - don't we all know

YouTube - Always look on the bright side of life - Monty Python

Cheer up, plenty more fish in the sea

Someone will be compatible with you. You just have to take your time during sex. Sometimes I think my gf will break up with me because sex isn't really very good (at least for me, so I wonder how good it is for her) and she's in pain sometimes. But she just needs to get used to my size is all. And we have a great relationship outside the bedroom, worshipping Prince as a living god and other such leisure pursuits.

Just take it slow, you can find someone better, who will love your size (AND YOU!) and actually want to STAY with you for it, and take the time to learn to handle it.

She actually sounds a bit mean, but I don't know the full story. Have fun.

When I broke up with my ex, she said 'your cock isn't that great, and I rarely cum'. I choose to think she was lying, maybe you should do the same

Women can be bitches, and don't we all know it?

Anyway, there are plenty of women out there who'd be more than grateful of your size. You'll find someone that wants you for you, and even if sex wise things aren't great to start with, she'll put in the effort needed to make things work.

Sometimes women are just to scared or too damn lazy to put in the work.

Thanks all. My close friends gave me the same advice. Working on other hobbies ...but sex is one of my hobbies. damn :)

Immerse yourself into a rigorous and punishing weightlifting routine...I'm serious.

...OB

OB:

You definately have a point.

My love life for 2006 has been quite discouraging and frustrating. Either he's married, out of state, not as interested in me as I am in him or more interested in me than I am in him or not compatible in some other manner.

I finally started working out to alleviate some of my sexual frustration. And it actually helps. My mind is clearer and more focused and my body is stronger. I've decided to make physical fitness a part of my life for the rest of my life.

I've actually decided to run my first 5k April 2007. Hmmmm. Maybe 2006 has not been all bad.

Okay, okay my love life STILL sucks but . . . . .

Hugs and Kisses,

Karmen

Swim a mile a day and nothing can touch you. Seriously. Or any workout that pushes you.

I swim about 4 miles a week and that's about as much as my body can stand and recover from.

Plus, you can check out the hotties in the other lanes underwater, just like they are checking you out. Goggles, my man, get some goggles...

3milimeters:

Perhaps your size was an issue. Perhaps your size was not an issue. Sometimes a couple isn't compatible and the relationship just isn't/wasn't meant to be.

For example, I actually had a guy tell me that I was too young for him. WTF! Okay there was a 22 year age difference but . . . . .

We were just casually dating. Nothing too serious. He was set up on a blind date by his best friend. The woman was older than I and much closer to his age, they had many mutual interests and "hit it off" immediately and she'd already passed the friends/family test.

Apparently, my age wasn't the only factor in his deciding that he didn't want to continue our friendship? All I do know is that a man that I really, really liked "dumped" me.

Again, the relationship wasn't meant to be. My feelings were hurt. I pouted for days. And I've decided to back away from the dating scene for a few weeks or so. Sigh! I guess I'll go and work it out at the gym.


Hugs and Kisses,

Karmen

Love is like war --
Easy to start
difficult to end
impossible to forget

Being rejected is one of the worse feelings we can experience, I think. It hurts deeply, we suffer for a long time, we feed vain hopes of an unlikely comeback, keep sentinel at the phone... you know the drill.

Going out is empty for a time too, girls might seem uninteresting... until you find that spark again. It's cheap advice, but it's true. Happened to me not a long time ago.

Go out man... don't go out thinking "I MUST get a babe tonight", but just hang out with friends for a time... it WILL happen ;)

Look on the bright side of being big: it won't be long before you'll find another woman who wants to give it a try with you. If you were smaller than average, or even average, you might have to wait a long time.

I agree with the going out principle. I got dumped sometime back, by arguably the love of my life, and then later on I had to dump her, which to tell you the truth seemed harder than getting dumped. After all, I was consciously flushing down the toilet years of dreams and ambitions I myself had built. But it was the right thing to do. And even though I didn't think I would find 'love' again, I think I have again. Either way, whether I have or have not, I am not convinced it can all happen again. And the best way to just relax about it all, is to go out and start seeing some interesting people. If anything you will have some good conversations, and those can turn into some valuable insights some times.