Congratulations, Cale! Like you, I was lucky to have the love and support not only of friends but eventually of family, too. And all this way before cyber-anthing! I came out five years before Stonewall! But now you can live in the light, so cheers to you!!

(With apologies to the redoubtable Mme Z for the inadvertent crib from her post about "living in the light." It was just so appropriate!) Belated thanks to you, Zora, and your indulgence, please.