nyc8, my friend, this venture you're willing to take is quite risky. clearly, there isn't any hard and fast answers on how to approach this ... issue. if you're asking for my opinion, i say leave the friendship as friendship. i've seen all to many times people (whether they be heterosexual or homosexual) try to take friendship to "the next level" and, in the end, they end up wishing they had drawn the line between common sense and fantasy. that is not to say the same shall be true with you - it may work out according to how you want it too. however, i'm a better safe than sorry kinda guy, therefore, i say leave it alone and keep this dream of yours in the theatre of mind. |