This is a great thread. I think that everyone's perespective is skewed by their own experiences and frame of reference. I never thought I was big until a few years ago (And even though I now realize it, I prefer that it NOT be the focus of those "OMG YOU GOT A HUGE COCK CAN I SEE? messages). I grew up watching lots of porn and just really felt like everyone had equipment of the same relative size. I didn't have cousins with whom I compared and avoided the showers in high school gym class because I went through puberty VERY late (my pubes grew when I was 17).

As Pecker said, if you're happy with what you have and know how to use it for the pleasure of yourself and others--then you are fine. I have a close buddy who has gone through life feeling like he had a small cock. At 42, I gave him a paper ruler and told him to measure length and girth. Turns out he is 6.5 x 7.5--a proverbial beercan. I sent him some of the penis size stats and he was floored. he had this idea in his head that you had to be 8" or more to be hung and that simply isn't true.


All you handsome thoughtful men have to be okay with yourselves. People would much rather have a great guy with an "Avserage" cock that an asshole with 10". Trust me.