what would you do

try inserting when your only half hard.. and find a silicon based product for lube..

I'm gunna go out on a limb here and repeat my belief that she is downright being lazy.

Lastly, and I am saying this as gently as possible, if a woman demanded something like circumcision from me, she better PLAN on carrying out my every wish until the day one of us died.

I think your being taken for a fool my friend...

...OB

I don't want to prejudge, but your wife sounds like a bitch. Especially as she makes a point of telling you what a great sex life she had with previous guys.

I would prescribe a therapeutic divorce, or (as I would doubt you could describe your marriage as properly consummated) an annullment.