Confessions of the BAD lover in you.

My prob is sometimes I can't finish and get frustrated. I think its years of my ex where she could only cum one time, after that it became painful for her. So over the years I trained my self to cum on command, basically had a switch in my head and when she was about to I turned it on and could finish within 2 minutes (usually took about 30-45 minutes to finish her off). Now every now and than I can't finish, and the girl thinks its her fault not mine, which can be frustrating, moreso for me, try pounding hard as heck to cum and can't, but for the girl cause she may think something is wrong with her. Also, I have the habit of showering right away, its not a bad thing, but some may get the impression that I want to wash the sex off right away, but for the fact I'm just a very hygenic person.

Well, I guess you have to please the one you're with. But rest assured there are some of us out there who think guys who take forever to cum are god's personal gift

I feel your pain.

Missionary, not so long for me, her on top, I can go forever. However, my wife doesn't like to be on top because she says it can hurt. She also says that she doesn't want it to take very long anyway, so I guess it is ok in the end.

Baby, this will NEVER be a problem. I love loud women

I have occasionally had that problem. When I was younger I focused so much on not cumming too fast that I would sometimes go 'numb' (in a sense) and not be able to orgasm no matter how long sex went on for, regardless of position changes.

These days I seldom have that problem - as I said elsewhere I think I finally have my penis 'trained', lol. My current partner loves that I take a long time, and her response also helps me over the 'edge' sometimes .

Otherwise... major flaws... sometimes I am resistant to changing rhythm... I had an ex who needed 40 mins of oral to cum that way, and that's just too long for my tongue and jaw to manage.