11-06-2006
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#16 (permalink)
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Hey Blue Orchid,
You have your head screwed on, which is always a good thing! I met my current boyfriend online, we have been together for about 4 years, but before we met, I did talk to him on the phone for a while and really got to know him!
I think if you meet somewhere where you can always talk about something (like people said, a restaurant etc) so the conversation will never dry up!
The worst case scenario is that he's not your type and you dont bother taking it any further, the best case scenario, is you meet someone for life, like I did (awwww!)
Have fun and play nice!!
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11-06-2006
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#17 (permalink)
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I have met a couple of people from online encounters. I agree with most of the others. A public place is a very good idea. Like any friendship it's best to go slow, don't give any clues as to where you live (land line phone number for instance, etc). Good luck! | | | |
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11-06-2006
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#18 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by blueorchid  Well, I'm going to experience something I've never been through before, so I'm here to check out the personal experiences of someone who has already lived this. A couple of months ago I met this guy online, he's from Italy (my homecountry) and he's a very nice guy, at least from what I can see in our talks. We talk often and for long time, about no matter which topic, and it is so good I never thought it was possible with someone I only knew online.
Now he told me that he is coming for work in Bordeaux (which is quite close to Toulouse, the city I live in) and will stay a week. He asked me to meet him and now I feel so weird because I want to meet him and at the same time I am scared...
I know what I wrote here sounds silly :P but I'd be relieved to know if someone has ever experienced to meet in real someone who they have known online.
Thanks for your help! :) | meeting new people is hard no matter what the venue, medium, anything. there will be akward moments, there will be failed expecations no matter if you met over the internet, on the street, through mutual friends, during a business exchange, walking in the park, etc... but without putting yourself out there, you'll never have the chance for all the fantastic things that can happen. its just a dichotomy, like everything else in life, but as long as you don't out-think yourself, psych yourself out about it, sounds like you could have a wonderful time
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11-14-2006
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#19 (permalink)
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It's always good to use (your) common sense, and act according to your instict and gut feeling. Yet: no risks, no gain.
I've met my closest companion online. I've built fruitful long-term friendships online (some still continue only as online contacts). I've had a some really great one-(two-three)-time only close encounters of a sexual kind. And I've had a few situations where the person live is so different of the image built online, that I've just smiled at the horror of (my) mistake.
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11-14-2006
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#20 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by blueorchid I know what I wrote here sounds silly :P but I'd be relieved to know if someone has ever experienced to meet in real someone who they have known online.
Thanks for your help! :) | I've met at least 75 people in person that I knew first online. Very few of those were negative experiences. It's really no big deal. | | | |
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11-14-2006
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Same here, I've met loads of people. Varied between shags or mates. It's been the shags that I've had a couple who were just not my kinda person after all and sometimes really crap in the sack. In all honesty, the fault there is mine for not finding out enough about them before I've decided to hit the sack with them. Still yet to meet any weirdos. | | | |
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11-14-2006
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#22 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by blueorchid Well, I'm going to experience something I've never been through before, so I'm here to check out the personal experiences of someone who has already lived this. A couple of months ago I met this guy online, he's from Italy (my homecountry) and he's a very nice guy, at least from what I can see in our talks. We talk often and for long time, about no matter which topic, and it is so good I never thought it was possible with someone I only knew online.
Now he told me that he is coming for work in Bordeaux (which is quite close to Toulouse, the city I live in) and will stay a week. He asked me to meet him and now I feel so weird because I want to meet him and at the same time I am scared...
I know what I wrote here sounds silly :P but I'd be relieved to know if someone has ever experienced to meet in real someone who they have known online.
Thanks for your help! :) | I've met a few people that I had met online and the nervous/excited feeling never goes away. All of mine turned out great though and I actually have a guy I met coming to see me again today  | | | |
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11-14-2006
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#23 (permalink)
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I've met up with a couple of people I met on line. There is also one guy that I knew and then met up with because of ran across him, on line.
Only was there a meeting, with an online person that was unwanted. A guy was changing, next to me, at the gym, and he recognized me, while looking at my semi-erect cock (I was worked up from working out and wanted to get home to my girlfriend and boyfriend). That freaked me out and I removed all pics, for a while. | | | |
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