Actually, guys, don't be so sure something was wrong. I sometimes cry during sex, and it's because I'm having really intense orgasms, along with my emotional state at the time. It's never been because I was in pain. I realize that pain is a turn-on for some people, but not for me, and I'll be saying STOP if something hurts!

I do have to say, though, that caneadea is absolutely right that you need to ask your girlfriend the question! Speaking only for myself, if I'm in pain I'll tell you so, but if it's pleasure I may not be able to answer at that moment, or even want to.

Communication, communication, communication!

Karen