okay i'll chime in from one (biased) woman's perspective. i'm still sorting this out, but in the end i'd say it wouldn't matter ultimately to go back to a guy with a small one after a big experience. i briefly dated a guy this summer who was enormous, and although I had a preference for large guys before him, the combination of him being a great guy and being truly huge (both physically and his penis) brought things to a whole new level. he doesn't live in my city but was just here on extended business- so I had to wrestle with the probability of never seeing him again and yes it did cross my mind that i'd miss his penis in addition to his company. as it turns out, i've seen him back in town twice, and we hooked up both times, and i'm not really sure where it's going if anywhere (but that's another story). would it be ideal to be with a guy who's both a great guy and has a big one? yes.