I suppose it depends on the woman. I have an ex who does not care much about size- she really only cares how talented your mouth is (something I have to confess I lack.) She has told me that the sex was better with me but that she is happier with her current BF despite the fact that he is considerably smaller- she tells me he has a “talented tongue.” On the other hand I have another friend who told me her ex husband spoiled her and she is now somewhat of a size queen.