Best way to get a girl to like you

Please enlighten me, I don't understand what that means.


EDIT: I forgot something!
Yep, virtually none. Although nothing is impossilbe, from my experience, if a girl doesn't like you, she'd mean it. She may decieve you at first (take caution), but it doesn't half hurt when you felt decieved.

While talking on that subject, be very careful on the net too, I had a couple of girls say that they love every bit of me, went to meet them and they never turned up, despite several text messages, unanswered phone calls and every time they didn't turn up, they blamed me, just for making the effort.

(Ok, I confess, I am quite a vunerable person, but I'd rather not use this place for an "agony aunt" yet, I know people who I can use for that.)



Hopefully, I am not being sexist, but as every bloke says, women are very complicated and hard ot understand. The same could be true for men. I just wish humans were more understanding an honest to each other, that includes me too. (I do have my faults, I confess.).

telling her to like you and if she will not then you will kill her

that shows how much you really like her and if she doesnt understand it at that point then she isnt the right girl for you

At 20 years old? Oh come on, get over yourself.

Yeah, that would be nice. well... time to return to reality...

Its called a distinct lack of self confidence and distinct lack of self esteem.....
(Don't worry, I am seeking psycratric (sp?) treatment!).
I think it all comes down to how you deal with life, bullying, stress and the breakings of relationships. In my case, I don't fair very well, in fact, I'd be more inclined to do something bloody stupid than sit out and cope with it.

@ horribleperson
After reading your comment again (I thought at first that you would die for them), tbh, that could be seen as a threat. The kind of person I am, I would never say THAT sort of thing to anyone. (Unless they tried to kill me.)

A way that always workd for me, is to find the object of your affection, the more public and crowded the better, the perform the holy trinity of pulling:

"Point, Grunt and Thrust"

In that order.

Can't fail.

What's not clear about that? It means I still need pussy.

Unfortunately you and I have too much in common. We are both too sensitive. Girls say they want sensitive men but they are full of shit. They desire sensitivity so that they can conquer your spirit and boost themselves.

I am in psychiatric treatment as well.

I've figured out to get her to like me. I just have to write the great American novel. That might impress her.

Possibly not. I mean, I get on (or try to) with both sexes and I tend to have gays chasing me (not a bad thing, but I am 100% straight) which doesn't really bother me as long as they don't overstep the line.

as I keep mentioning, the difference between us 2 (apart from the fact that we both have been given psycriatric treatment), is that I was diagnosed with Aspergers syndrome 2 years ago (mild), I also found out recently that I have OCD, which is to many linked to Aspergers (professionals believe there is a link, but so far, there is no conclusive evidence as of yet, then again, the information I was reading, maybe wrong.), I tend to keep myself rather isolated, but I am slowly changing that, I've been threatend just for fancying someone, I lack many social understanding between men and women in regards to forming a relationship/understanding you aren't liked and a couple of days ago, I didn't understand what "Back off" really meant.

Of course, I am also very sensitive (sheesh, I could rival women in that and the moaning department!) and I don't have a lot of confidience.

Apart from not actually touching alcohol (there are rare cases I have, but in my 20 years of living, that was only for about less than an hour in 2 cases! And the last case? Well, the taste put me off!), I don't smoke currently, or take any hard/illegal drugs and as I keep saying, I've never had sex. So, really, I am a world away from everyone in this forum, but I am supprised I am actually or so I see it (if you have other ideas, please PM me) that I am intergrating bettert than I thought i would.




20 year old quite pure lad up for grabs, any takers by women? :) (Only major crime? Stripping on webcam, and I was egged on for that...!)


EDIT:
I always on edits recently, I just can't get my thoughts out of my head quick enough, or say that is it!


Anyway, I don't know about your age group, but I feel a lot in my age group haven't learnt to understand the advtanges we can give to women, I mean, I suppose we would be great lovers, but we could get over-sensitive (yes, I do over-react!) and cause our lovers to just walk away. Several of my tutors think I am a mature student, one thinks my english is quite "impressive" and others think I am a very kind person. Its a shame that my heart is made of glass.

As I keep mentioning her name, Nat (my latest "obession") I think I have scared off, so I just thought after assuming everything, I'd just leave and let her live, kiss goodbye (not literally, I haven't spoken to her for over a month), let her get on with the love of her life, admit I am a looser and just stay away from her. Its probably the opposite she wanted, but I think its for the best.
Communication is important, communication lacks in her department though (5 emails, all ignored! :'( ).

After all, I didn't gain much, its getting to a point where I am trying to totally ignore and go to opposite ends of the train I use now, although the train is 3 cars long, there isn't much hiding room of a train 60 metres long, 2.82ms wide, 3.77ms heigh single decker. Ok, there is the disabled bog, but I'd rather avoid that for 15 minutes, unless I am desperate, but this is the sort of extreme measures I will take.

Then again, I've been looking at a pic of someone from a site which is not the best site in the world (won't mention, as I am quite embarrased about it, but many men look at these sites), shame I don't have her name, or site where it came from, the site it was on with the link kept putting me on to other sites.

better known as flirting! dude, flirt with her. remember chasing girls on the playground? same ritual, just a lot more subtle. if she doesn't respond it's not a big deal--flirting is fun, and you can always pull back if you need to without making a fool of yourself.

or just get her drunk.

Well as long as we're being unrealistic... you'd be much better off becoming a rapper or rock star and recording a #1 single. Or becoming president of a Fortune 500 company. Or dictator of your own totalitarian regime. Those would all probably get you laid.

so is this thread about the best way to get a girl or the most effective... certainly writing the great american novel is best way i've heard so far to get an girl, most effective, maybe not. Oh and i'm pretty sure that nobel prize sex is better than dictatorship sex because the chicks will be of higher quality all around and probably more worshipful (as opposed to merely fearful). I would much rather nail some of the chicks saul bellow has dated then sit around getting my dick played with by an illiterate 18 year old groupie or some random homegrown beauty from the slums of my banana republic.

[quote]So you say...
How did you know? I love the smell of crushed egos in the morning...
You might want to discuss that sensitivity thing with your therapist.
You could wear a sandwich board that says "Sensitive Man needs Pussy". Women will swarm around you within minutes.

Seriously, you can't make anyone like you. Just make sure you're the person you want to be and you will attract others like you.

And my dream is far less impressive.
I fancy owning my own 12in to a foot scale "model" (loose term) railway. 16-20 miles of its own tracks, own rolling stock, own lines, seperated from Network Rail and all the Association of Train Operating Companies palava, away from the Department for Transport, away from all the burecrats, etc. Just have a self supporting, locally funded rail system that the community can use and aleviate congestion in my part of Sussex.
Cost? Only about £500,000,000 or so (in that scale? The cost can often hit 7 figures in one mile easily, while constructing new!).


Now, thats not going to get me laid! :)

If I hadnt touched alcohol I wouldnt have been laid yet either. I'm 25.

Yes, Ive been working on my rapping. Thx