unsure about sexuality

ok, i had a freind whom i experimented with when i was 14/15 and i loved it honestly, i'd never pass up the chance to give head. although since then ive never done anything further with a guy. Im really thinking about hooking up with a guy pretty soon, but i dont know if im really up for it. any help?

WHow do you feel about women. Do they turn you on. Do you think about what it would be like to go further with a guy? Do you want other guys giving you head.

If a beautiful naked woman was there waiting to be fucked and a beautiful naked guy was laying next to her, which one would you go to first?

Do you fantasize about being a top or a bottom?

When you think about romantic dinners alone. Who is is with? A man or a woman.

Think about your answers to these and other similar questions.

Most important, don't experiment with someone who thinks you are in love with them when you are not. If it is just experimentation then say so.

There are plenty of guys in it for the thrill of the moment. No need to break someone's heart who thinks you have a real crush on them when you don't.

Practice safe sex. If you are young, you should bury me, not me bury you because you contract a terminal illness because you used no protection.

And if you don't feel right, don't do it. Whatever it was you thought you were going to do.

To quote Karen from Will and Grace:

"A penis and a vagina are in a tent that is on fire, which one do you save?"

These are really good questions, but you may have to use your imagination a little at first. After all, we are so conditioned in our youth to want the candlelight dinner with a member of the opposite sex, that we can't initially imagine such a thing with a member of the same sex.

Absolutely! Also, don't use anyone. Make sure their intentions are similar to yours. If it is just for fun, or experimentation, or learning, make it completely clear from the beginning.

If you are old enough, and it is legal in your area, rent some porn. Watch different acts, straight, gay, bi, etc. and see what your response is to each. Pay close attention to your feelings and attractions as you watch. When watching straight porn, I have absolutely no response to the women. When they are in close up, or the man/men are mostly out of frame, I lose interest altogether. You may find that you are the opposite. Or you may feel the same. Don't be afraid of your responses. No one else need ever know about them if you don't want them to.

Greetings, My two cents on this topic. We can now know how old the originator of this Thread is. Very important questions are being asked. I also noted that the topic was originated by someone who just joined LPSG.

No problem there. They certainly do not know about the search option we have here. May I suggest that Brabadok check out this link, which contains some interesting observations:

Young Male Sexual Experiences

Although I started the thread, I will be quick to state that the post by others made this topic germane for many readers.

Today I site it here to be of assistance to Brabodok and others who may also have the same question/s.

Have a great day.