if a man likes to cuddle

I love to cuddle. And you straight guys into your stick figure woman, that's not cuddling, because you have nothing to cuddle into! A woman with a womanly figure and a full body is a wonderful thing to hold close to. It's great!

Well, I do hug my male friends at times, but I don't have any desire to cuddle with them

Dreamer: You'll have to get in line... I serve on a first come first served basis... who knew that 6 months after my divorce, I'd have a waiting list....

cuddling my gf is a gloriously comforting and sexy way to express and reinforce our togetherness. whilst it may not be as intense as sex, it does have the merit of being less likely to get us thrown out of the restaurant.

I would think he's gay, or he's desperate for affection (like me)

Something is wrong with this picture, if people might actually venture, that if a man likes to snuggle he might be gay or starved for affection. What the hell is wrong with snuggling someone of the opposites sex. Hell, for that matter what the hell is wrong with snuggling anyone, nothing. Of course if you do snuggle someone of the same sex, I think you might have some homosexual tendencies, but that still doesn't make you gay. On the other hand if you just like to snuggle the opposite sex how does that make you gay in anyway, whether it was dominant snuggle or a submissive snuggle (it's silly that one needs to even classify it as such).

I find it strange, that in the States, alot of men see any kind of sensitive show of affection as either a secret to be kept between a woman or a man, or a breach into the realm of Gaydom.

The weird part is that I am talking from the Arab world currently, and here the Macho culture does not look kindly on a man that is too effectionate in public. However privately it is natural that once he is with his family in the privacy of his home he can be as cuddly as he wants and that is not considered gay in anyway. On the other hand, somehow such an open culture like the US doesn't allow for that subconciously.

I remember that when I was in college, I used to hear from my American friends, that two guys who knew each other wouldn't want to sit beside each other in the movie theatre. What is that about!?

Well for my vote. Snuggle away. Snuggle a little, alot, in public, in secret. I'm an avid snuggler. Anyway, why wouldn't I want to do it. It always gives me a hard on which I get to use sooner or later.

Game Over.

Dude, breathe. It was a joke. I am all for cuddling. I have been accused of OVER cuddling with my ex gf's

I love cuddling and if my partner didn't like it, I would think that there was something wrong with him. It's very comforting to be wrapped-up in someones arms -- and sometimes it leads to other things.......

I was talking to some American guys on the weekend about this subject -- American guys not showing affection or not standing really close to each other. I was quite surprised. In the Antipodes it's not a big deal. In Asia male friends hold hands -- now that's a bit much for me.

One virtual hug for Bronx.

Miss Bliss, these dudes left you hanging all this time?
Here's one for you too.

I am the first and only person in this thread to ask to hold you roosevelt. Now you have created an imaginary line before me.

My how you blacksmith's fantasize.

Well, I guess you could say that

Awww. Thanks, dreamer20.

I have been reading and thought man i was just thinking of this: I sit here thinking of you.. Remembering laying in the grass..Your eyes so bright with joy.. You holding me in an embrace me hearing your heart beat in my ear . The way you smell the warmth of your arms.. You breath on the top of my head.. Wanting so much for it not to end, for time to stand still... Watching the sun shine above our heads streaming color of love across the sky..

I fully agree. Pelvic bone sticking into my body is not pleasurable at all. With a larger woman, there is more to hug and cuddle.

Of course men do! Why wouldn't we? Cuddling is hot because it awakens the senses.

When two partners cuddle, they're expressing their love to one another. It's a form of bonding.

I'm a dominant bi top and I love to cuddle, after sex with my partners or close friends. Other times it depended on my mood.