I am shy, I guess. I _HATE_ my flaccid penis. I mean, I'm pretty big (7.5" I guess) erect, but when it's flaccid, all my self estime is gone, and that kills me. I think I am the more passionate lover(as far as making out goes)

I dunno though :-/ is there some tea that increses blood flow? Maybe I should work out just before? Should I masturbate that morning, or the day before, or 3 days before?

I love to see her, and when I see her she damn near gets me hard, so it's not a matter of attraction. It's simply anxiety, but I have a very stubborn way with these sort of things, and I need something big to push me out of it.

I guess it comes down to me not being 100% comfortable with her seeing me naked.

Should I practice?

Any girls here want to shed some light on this? surely a flaccid penis goes hand in hand with the leaving the socks on thing, right?

What should I do?