HELP - Girl I Really Like Just Hooked up with a Guy Who Supposedly Has a Big One!

Long story short, I just moved to a new town so I'm looking for new girlfriend.

Unfortunately, this girl that I think is really hot just hooked up a couple weeks before I got here with this guy who supposedly has a big dick. I really have no idea if he does or doesn't nor do I care personally, however when I mentioned to a friend at the gym about possibly hooking up with her, he said to me something to the effect of "Oh, she's with him because he's a real meat slinger." I replied, "You mean he has a big dick?" He said, "Yeah, he's an ox fucker..." - whatever that means. I heard from her friends that she 'really' liked him, but he didn't like her much - go figure.

A few things I should mention. First, this girl is a good friend of one of my family members. The first day I met/saw this girl was at the gym with my family member who knows her. I saw her checking me out from afar and then when she came near us my cousin introduced me and she seemed kinda embarassed because she had just been checking me out. Second, over the next week or so I saw her two other times - once at my same family members house where she was hanging out smoking/drinking and being really cool (interestingly enough no guy next to her side just girlfriends, although I know at this time she had already been with him) and second this past Friday at her work. I asked her at work if she was going to the party we were having on Saturday and she said "Yeah definitely, I'll see ya there!" with a big smile on her face so I thought I was in.

To my surprise, she didn't show up to the party at all. She mentioned to a friend that she might come by, but this time it would be with the infamous guy because they were hanging out that night. Then, she decided not to come at all. I'm not sure if she didn't want to come around with the guy (keep in mind she doesn't know I have so much insight into her personal life) if she liked someone who was there (hopefully me) or she was just trying to get some ass for the night and wanted to bypass the party altogether (unfortunately, probably the latter).

Anyhow, I'm not having penis envy over this situation because I have a rather large penis as well, probably bigger than this guy - I just need to find out how to get her to know it (or at least realize she wouldn't be giving up anything in the bedroom by hooking up with me). I know how most girls get a strong attachment to a guy after sex, especially if the guy has a big dick and knows how to use it (I have experienced this personally).


So what do you guys think my best bet is here?

P.S. - Her best friend who is single but not really hot (also a friend of my cousin's) really likes 'me', apparently more than the girl I like. I'm almost tempted to fool around with her just so she'll get the word out, but I don't want to mess up my chances with the girl I like.

Ahhh...

From what I read, she likes big dicks.

You have a big dick.

You hope she likes... you or your big dick?

Do you have any long term plans together with her or are you just going to see how it works out, copulation by copulation? And what would happen when an even more endowed person comes along - will she stay with you?

Many questions need to be answered here....

Sometimes, I really miss Dr. Rock's insights.

Take your pick from this selection --->

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dr Rock this forum is a neverending source of reassurance to me - every day, i see people who are SO much more fucked up than i am

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dr Rock there are fucking humans all over my planet

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dr Rock see a shrink

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dr Rock i am 10 hours closer to death than when i last posted!

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dr Rock ahh okay, so you're just a fucking retard. my mistake!

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dr Rock you really are a nauseating little turd, aren't you?

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dr Rock the internet is loaded with crap like this.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dr Rock ah, right, you're just a moron. thanks, i guess that wraps up this discussion

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dr Rock the crucial differences are that i am a) correct, b) smart, and c) don't give a shit whether you clowns get upset or not.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dr Rock what's wrong with nuclear weapons? they're the fastest way we have of wiping out large human infestations.

*sigh*... happy times...

Hmm I would suggest that you go wih the girl who likes you more because she can make you happier than the girl you like more. :-) if you are looking for sex, hook with the not so hot friend of your object of affection. If you are looking for love, then, wait for the the right person to come along. it is better that you wait rather than look for love. :-)

Nothing says "Big Dick" like an awesome BULGE, so get that shit straight, and let her see ALL of you. She'll either be impressed or not, if she LIKES big dicks, you're in like Flynn!

She's probably a Republican then.

Yeah I don't think she necessarily 'likes big dicks' per se. However, this may have been the first 'bigger' one that she has had because she is only 21.

I know for a fact though that she doesn't get committed to relationships very easily though. This new fling just started a couple weeks ago and her and the best friend just had a little threesome fooling around thing less than 6 months ago with a childhood friend of theirs when they were all drunk.

I really hope she likes me, regardless of my dick (although I'm sure she'll like it, hehe) and from what I can tell so far I'm pretty sure she likes my looks now rather than my dick which she hasn't seen or heard about.

As far as long term plans, I'd rather sticking to the dating thing for now - possibly something more if she has a good head on her shoulders.

And about the even more endowed person... that I do not know.

Put on a pair of sweatpants and do jumping jacks in front of her.

If you look for some fun, and she does too, you can count on your size, but if that is the only thing she looks for, you should be prepared to lose her for a bigger guy.

Otherwise if the both of you are looking for love and romance, size is not an immediate method of attraction. Seduce her, make her feel loved and special. Options are many: you can take her out for a romantic dinner, send her flowers or other small presents. Again, a walk in the moonlight, a letter where you uncover your feelings....

If you find the way to eneter her soul before her bedroom, Mr Big will be a far memory.

Yeah as far as size I'm not definitely not concerned, I'm in the 8 regular / 9 good days category, which is why I mentioned I don't think he would be much bigger than me if he was at all.

I know this girl likes to have sex early in relationships so that is good, but I wouldn't mind it leading to more.

Thanks for that ALEX, I needed a good laugh tonight.

Thanks for all the responses, we'll see how things play out