in college i dated a hot latina ... who i always viewed as a 'friend with benefits' ... she'd told her room-mate i was a good lay with a big cock ... and then her room-mate wanted 'a tumble'. being all of 20, i obliged. bad idea. i found out my 'casual f**k' was more than a little jealous. she went ballistic. we all ended up losing ... roomates, playmates, etc. as madame zora said, there are more than enough people to play with. stay away from roommates, gfs, ex-gfs, finances, etc. no good is going to come of it.