Friends

johnnyki · 10-14-2006

I'm bi. I do stuff with guy friends all the time. In my experience, even str8 guys are into big cocks and, let's face it, everyone like to get off, so stuff happens. I think it's sort of common for str8 guys to at least stroke off together.

jack99821 · 10-14-2006

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Originally Posted by classyron

I have heard that from many people, and wondered if it really was true.

I have a friend, the only one of my childhood friends who is also hung, and he and I always shared a weird tension. One weekend we went camping at a local vacant wooded lot (about 50+ acres of trees and utility roads). Word got out that "the guys" were going camping and it turned into a happening party (senior year high school). Late in the night I hooked-up with a girl who had recently been with my friend. She commented on how I had a big cock, but that my buddy was a little bigger. Usually I would have been put off by that, but it sort of turned me on. She and I had a blast, but we made a rule that none of the women could stay the night, so eventually she had to go. As we were getting ready to call it a night we threw a few blankets out around the fire and decided to sleep in the open(drunk stupid teens, there were around a dozen of us guys). My friend and I were on the same blanket and eventually migrated near each other to stay warm, as the fire burned itself almost out. After we were asleep for a while I noticed that he had his arm over me and was slightly cupping my cock and balls through my shorts. I stirred a little and he quickly removed his hand and rolled over. I figured turn around was fair play, so I eventually laid my arm across him and let my hand work its way to his cock. To be honest, the girl was being nice to my ego. This guy was a fucking horse. He knew what I was doing and kind of positioned himself so that I could feel the whole thing as it strained and grew. I pretty much held his now (at least) semi hard cock in my hands with a thin layer of cotton between us for a good 15 - 20 minutes. I am not into guys so I did not really do anything, but the fascination with cocks has always been there, and this was the only manifestation of it in a truly physical form. When I think of that night I still get a hard-on, but I eventually think of the girl he and I shared and the nasty things we did together!

I think you answered your own question. Curiosity about other dudes is in our genes. It doesn't mean everyone gets off on the thought, though. I expect it's something left over from the stone age, probably a need to figure out who is the "alpha male" (i.e. who gets the girl in order to preserve the species... I sincerely doubt we acted on emotional attraction back then.) Now though, it's more of an "am I normal" thing, even if you've seen porn or whatever... that's still on a tape, not real. How do I rank in my circle of friends... etc.

I don't know if it's an indirect result, but it definitely adds to the camaraderie between the guys. You know you have a true friend when you can open up like that.

Just my 2¢.

SomeGuyOverThere · 10-15-2006

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Originally Posted by jack99821

I think you answered your own question. Curiosity about other dudes is in our genes. It doesn't mean everyone gets off on the thought, though. I expect it's something left over from the stone age, probably a need to figure out who is the "alpha male" (i.e. who gets the girl in order to preserve the species... I sincerely doubt we acted on emotional attraction back then.) Now though, it's more of an "am I normal" thing, even if you've seen porn or whatever... that's still on a tape, not real. How do I rank in my circle of friends... etc.

I don't know if it's an indirect result, but it definitely adds to the camaraderie between the guys. You know you have a true friend when you can open up like that.

Just my 2¢.

I think your 2 cents are worth every penny.

I think it can be a mixture of "am I normal?" and "where do I rank amoung my friends". We are pretty much pack animals, and in the pack there is allways a hierarchy, and as males, we want to know where we fit into the hierarchy.

Ofcourse there is also the side of wanting to experiment with a side of yourself (that you may or may not have), and wanting to fool around sexually with other guys.

Personally, i never had any real experience in it, I only wish I did.

Dekkar · 10-15-2006

I played with a guy I knew from the football team in school. He's very affectionate and bi (I learned later). We didn't do much but kiss, but for a first time, that's all I wanted and needed. It felt so good to make out with another guy. We're still friends but we don't do that anymore because we're so different that a partner type relationship wouldn't work.

lax · 10-16-2006

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Originally Posted by classyron

I have heard that from many people, and wondered if it really was true.

I have a friend, the only one of my childhood friends who is also hung, and he and I always shared a weird tension. One weekend we went camping at a local vacant wooded lot (about 50+ acres of trees and utility roads). Word got out that "the guys" were going camping and it turned into a happening party (senior year high school). Late in the night I hooked-up with a girl who had recently been with my friend. She commented on how I had a big cock, but that my buddy was a little bigger. Usually I would have been put off by that, but it sort of turned me on. She and I had a blast, but we made a rule that none of the women could stay the night, so eventually she had to go. As we were getting ready to call it a night we threw a few blankets out around the fire and decided to sleep in the open(drunk stupid teens, there were around a dozen of us guys). My friend and I were on the same blanket and eventually migrated near each other to stay warm, as the fire burned itself almost out. After we were asleep for a while I noticed that he had his arm over me and was slightly cupping my cock and balls through my shorts. I stirred a little and he quickly removed his hand and rolled over. I figured turn around was fair play, so I eventually laid my arm across him and let my hand work its way to his cock. To be honest, the girl was being nice to my ego. This guy was a fucking horse. He knew what I was doing and kind of positioned himself so that I could feel the whole thing as it strained and grew. I pretty much held his now (at least) semi hard cock in my hands with a thin layer of cotton between us for a good 15 - 20 minutes. I am not into guys so I did not really do anything, but the fascination with cocks has always been there, and this was the only manifestation of it in a truly physical form. When I think of that night I still get a hard-on, but I eventually think of the girl he and I shared and the nasty things we did together!

I had a friend when I was younger(13) and he was 18 (my older brother's friend and mine). One day I was sleeping over and I shared a bed with him he had just gotten off the phone with his girlfriend and he got hard. It was sticking out of his boxers and i bumped into it. After I realized it was his dick i
gently felt it. It wasn't very thick but about 7.5 to 8 inches long. Later I went into the next room and had the best jerk off of my life.

robmass42 · 10-16-2006

When I was in college, my parents and younger brother hosted a foreign exchange student from Norway. I didn't meet him until I came home for Thanksgiving.

He was the classic blonde Nordic type - a skier with a beautiful smile and a great body. His English was very good.

My brother taught him to play poker, and my first night at home, we started up a late night game and did a lot of shots. This kid could really hold his liquor - I think they start younger in Norway. My younger bro crapped out around 1:30, and we sat up drinking a while longer.

Bedtime came, and we were sharing a room. He had been assigned my old room, which had two single beds.

I go to the bathroom to take a piss and brush my teeth, and come back into the bedroom to find him stark naked, hanging up his clothes in the closet.

I strip down and crawl into bed, turn out the light. He comes back from the bathroom, and crawls in with me. I don't object. We have a great night, and a better weekend. He was a very enthusiastic bottom.

He went back to Norway right before Christmas, so we only had a few days together, but it was fun.

smokeylink · 10-20-2006

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Originally Posted by lax

Has anybody ever wanted to or "played around" with a male friend whether your gay or straight?

Sure. From the time I was 14 thru 18. With friends who were 2 years younger than me thru my age.