High School stuff

Ok, I'm a senor in high school and all that, im taking theatre classes, so now you know, lets get onw tih the story shall we?

Yes, lets do.

The other day I was in my Theatre III class, its a fun class, plus theres a girl I like in there. (ah, adolescense) So the other day the Theatre III class went into the theatre I class for a friendly game a charades! (not so friendly) So anyway where arent enough desks to go around So i stand near the back of the room, behind all the desks, with a fw other ppl.

I am standing behind Codi, this girl. I like her a lot, she's really smart and funny, and likes Anime! and we hve a lot of stuff in common, but aside from all of that she's really cute! (why dont i ask her out? she's got a boyfriend) So I end up standing behind Codi while we play charades. I am talking to my friend Danual when all of the sudden Codi turns around and looks at my pants, the groin area, and she reaches her hand out and grabs... the key ring hangning off my belt.

She asks what a leather loop is for, a leather loop that i keep on my keys. I play it good, like someone doesnt have their hand 3 inches from my crotch, and answer, try to make a joke even.

Idk what to think!

I like her, and I know she likes me, atleast as a friend. She just might be one of those weird girls that is close with all her friends (thus the not being afraid to grab at my groin) or something! Idk what to think...

What do ya think I should do?

with THAT beast you oughta at least give her the chance at enjoying it, her boyfriend or not. you're young, she's young, you'll both have many more, its important for her proper development to see the light ;-)

good luck! report back on your progress of course, consider this a homework assignment

Women, and girls, can be very hard to read. But if she looked directly at your crotch, and stared for a minute or so, before grabbing the key ring, that sounds like very strong inuendo to me. She likely saw your bulge, and was interested--wondering if it ws what she thought she saw, etc. If she and her bf have been together a long time, then it could be messy. If not, then it might be worth a shot. Nobody is married to anybody else here, and all's fair and all that. She may also just be interested in you as a friend, but curious and amazed by what she saw. THis is a tough one, one you are going to have to play by ear. Girls that get to close as friends to guys, without it evolving into some kind of romantic and/or sexual relationship, will often make SURE that being a friend is ALL you will be, because they will be afraid of messing up the friendship. TIming is critical here, and tough to judge sometimes. She ultimately can choose who she wants to be ith, at any time. I'd be friendly, talk about common interests, but flirt casually with her, and see how she reacts. THeater classes let you get away with alot more shameless inuendo than almost any other class, and let you have fun and let your hair down a bit more. THat's the best I can offer, I'm afraid--just be nice, be friendly, share common interests, and flirt, so she has a clue you are interested. THe mating game is silly and stupid sometimes, but it is also the only game in town. Hang in there!! You are smart, funny, talented (obviously) cute as hell, and have a great sense of humor. Your dick is just icing on the cake, and any girl would be lucky to be with you. Make sure the one you choose you feel lucky to be with her as well.

Yup. That sure is weird alright.
A)Move to a new town.
B)Stop posing in tight clothes.
C)Eat more granola.
D)Grab her shoulders while ogling her breasts (turn-about is fair play)

hummm....my recollection of Theatre chicks (I was in speech&debate and did a few plays) is that they are generally a little wilder than the avg HS girl. She was definately flirting and sounds like she is tired of waiting on you to make the move. She may be looking for a reason to dump her BF....girls generally lik to know where they are going to land before they make the jump. Or maybe she wants a freind with benefits.....and she noticed your bulge and wants to find out for herself. (Nice cock btw! i would suggest trimming to show it off even more :)
Either way you need to follow up......tell her you know she has a bf....but you think she is ....fill in the blank (cute sweet hot blah blah) and you would love to go out with her.....see what happens.....tell her you loved when she was playing with your keyring.....made me hot....and be stairing at her boobs while you say that.....good luck keep us posted and take pictures.....i mean G pics....curious to see what she looks like!

Thats exactly what she is, she's a Theatre/speech and debate girl.
But I want her for more than sex, as a matter of fact when it comes down to it thats one of the last things on my mind when I'm talking to her. That's how I know it's something more than just lust.

I'll take all your advice and see if I cant come up with something.

Thanks for all the advice too, I'll get back to you with devolopements.

This is the first time i've ever posted here. And it's because I'm going through something like this right now. Im just a little farther along. I'm 18 and a senior in High School. I ruined things with my best friend last month by thinking she liked me after some (In what I though was) flirtation. We barely talk now.
No offense to any of the people giving advice to you, but they are all a lot older than high school kids. Things are different now. Teenagers are a lot more comfortable with their bodies and making sexual jokes/flirtation and they see it as harmless.
In my experience we were doing things that sound like how you two are acting. We are both in the tech crew (Behind the scenes of theater) The tech crew in my school has a reputation for being pretty raunchy and wild. Pantsings, grabbing, and stuff like that. Me and my best friend were getting pretty close, i made a move and now we dont even talk.
Im not tellin you wut to do. Part of the situation is different but parts are the same. Just thought that you might want to hear what happened when I did what you're thinking about doing.

Yea I went through the samething in my senior year with my best friend. Umm, I thought I liked her for a bit, but for some reason, it was never sexual. I could never picture anything sexual with her, just came out as gross to me. But, don't get me wrong, shes a very cute girl... almost all my guy friends have liked her at some point. But, with me, I couldn't see her in that way... so she seemed more like a lil sister (shes only 1 year younger). Anyway, one of my friends unfortunately did like her and once before they were best friends, until he tried to make a move on her. Yea, but you never know... However, I totally support that idea that ALL girls are wierd and no man, EVER, will understand a woman.

My advice for you, sounds like shes being a friendly girl... very touchy, very friendly, nothing more. I know at some times you guys will hang out and you will be so sure that she REALLLLLY likes you and is coming onto you... but I would doubt it.

Man, the best way to find out is get her out at a party, or some other social setting where defenses tend be lower, and make a subtle move on her. Jokingly give her ass a squeeze or a little pat and see how she reacts. You don't want to just grab her tits during class or anything, but give it a shot when you have the right circumstance to play it off as a harmless joke. If she freaks out you can say that you consider her a friend and meant nothing more than that. If she responds in turn, then you are about to fuck the girl you really dig. Unless she is a total flirt/tease, but if so it is best that you find out before you get involved with her. People, in general, are hard to read, but if a guy reached anywhere near your package you would know what he is after. Women are enigmas, which is what keeps guys interested.

the entire situation depends on how big her boyfriend is. jk.

I will have to defer to those closer in age to mestopholes---my information is more than a bit dated, and may not apply. I still say, take it easy, show interest back, flirt some, but don't be overly agressive. When it seems comfortable, and like it came up in casual conversation, ask how things are going with her and her bf. Take careful note of how she responds. If she indicates that it isn;t too great, show appropriate concern, and let her know you are there for her. She may just be a free spirit, who feels comfortable enough with you to be more physical. She may be giving you hints. The hot and cold game women play with men will always be confusing and frstrating to the male of the species. THe biological instinct for women is to keep as many on the string as possible, until she can determine best who she wants to have babies with, and who will nurture and care for her and the children. Note this is the deep seated biological response, but it does help color how she behaves. The bottom line is, though, that you honestly care for her, are attracted to her, and want more with ehr than you have now. You have a basic choice---take the risk of getting more, or losing what you have, or playing it safe and not betting. I can promise you one thing, though--if you feel as deeply as you say you do, and you never try, then you WILL have that regret for the rest of your life. If you try, and lose her, you will hurt, sure--but you will also move on, and at least know you gave it your best shot. There is an old quote I love, which applies here: "Sure the game is rigged--but if you don't bet, you can't win". In the end, for everybodies sake, you have to be honest with yourself, and her. Good Luck!

I think you ought to give her the link to your gallery... can you outrun her boyfriend?

YUP

Just ask her what she likes about her boyfriend and listen to what she tells you. She will either tell you or if she is interested in you she will tell you she is breaking up with him. Don't ask her out before a break up.