No, Lex, that is not at all what I said. The argument shouldn't be "why do you condone some murders but not this?" As long as you go that route, I don't see how you can expect them to accept or even understand your perspective. All of this other shit is a distraction to put the focus on pro-lifers instead of abortion.

I can't think of a single moral issue that the average "pro-lifer" isn't hypocritical about. That can't be the center or basis of discussion, because nothing would ever be moral. If you're waiting on them to show consistency on the issues, or acknowledge hypocrisy, you will never get to the issue itself.