Gay Men...How Many Sex Partners Have You Had???

15shooter · 02-26-2008

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Originally Posted by bi_toddca

women: grand total of 4

men: fucking with about 30. oral and jacking with 200-300.

the men have all been in the last 5 years.

the oral and jacking part makes me think of the phrase "so many men, so little time."

15shooter · 02-26-2008

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Originally Posted by Corius

As one who can count all sexual encounters ( both male and female) on the fingers of my two hands, I am curious as to what the thrill of multiple partners is for those who have posted claiming many. In my own journey into the joy of my unique sexuality it was the relationship that counted. The sex that was part of each relationship came about as the natural way of sealing the bonds of friendship and love which had come into being----and the sex was fantastic. My fantasy life has included hundreds and came with no complications.

Corius,
I too can count the number of sex partners (for me, in 40 years) on 2 hands (see below). I have to say though, that as I get older I regret not at least doing more JO with others. I guess I am too uptight. Maybe some oral as well. As for fucking? For that I would agree with everything you said above.

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Originally Posted by 15shooter

I don't think gays are any different from straights or even bisexuals. Some have more sex than others. Over a period of 40 years, I have had sex with 3 women and 2 others that I wanted to but it never worked out. I have also had sex with 6 men, the last 2 which were each 8 year long monogamous relationships. Again, 2 others that I wanted to but it never worked out.

aspshortjock · 02-26-2008

fucking? 10--3 were relationships and the other 7 were fuckbuddy friendships that eventually just ended.

J/o or BJ? another 30. (that's getting a BJ, I tend not to suck.)

all safe, except once (which was very stupid of me--and he was gross. i'm very lucky.)

BBTM · 02-26-2008

Only one. And Hopefully only one. :)

Magicgayboy · 02-27-2008

Ohh, it's not as bad as I thought! Only about 11 or 12 if I'm remembering correctly.

doserre · 02-27-2008

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Originally Posted by moyanboyan

i don't know if this topic has been addressed but after reading some statistics on gay lifestyle, i'm grown curious to know the number of people gay men sleep around with on average. the study i read showed that its quite common for a gay male (they studied caucasians i think) to have sex with about 1,000 different partners in their lifetime...at first i thought it was a lot..but i did some math...
say you screwed about 30 different folks each year over an active sex life of 33 years...thats 33x30 = 990 different guys so i don't see 1,000 being out of the realm...me...lol..i'm new to the lifestyle so i've only had 3 different guys...lol..but i might make up for lost time...hehe...as long as you play safe and cautiously...no harm right?
SO HOW MANY GUYS HAVE YOU SCREWED? (i won't be judgemental ;) )

well i think that i'm old-fashioned i have been with my boyfriend from the first day and just him.

MuscledHorse · 02-27-2008

I, proudly, cannot count the number of guyz I've been with on two hands or even 10 hands. Well past the 1,500 mark here (and no, that's not a typo). Thuroughly enjoy sex here so i hit a lot of sex parties and sex clubs (miss living in NC where there was at least 1 sex party a month. If you own stock in Trojan, I'm one of the reasons their revenues are so high. By the time I return from vacatio at the end of next week I'll have easily added 20 or 30 guyz to that total.

dedrewm · 02-28-2008

WOW....I never thought as myself as a slut, but I guess my good looks and my circumstances have let me so far fool around with at least 600+ (conservative) people, most safely, and have had a few long term relationships.... I am very picky and have travel the world a lot and I would say 90% were too good to pass up

Supersized · 02-28-2008

Over 20.

hotman911 · 02-28-2008

3 women younger

8 guys I have some making up to do lol

Gay Men...How Many Sex Partners Have You Had???

Originally Posted by bi_toddca women: grand total of 4 men: fucking with about 30. oral and jacking with 200-300. the men have all been in the last 5 years. the oral and jacking part makes