Everyone's just people. As much as the human brain wants to pigeonhole entire categories of people, it just doesn't work that way. There are very few defining traits of any group of people, beyond what puts them in that group. For gay men, it would be the liking of men. Other than that, we run the gamut, for which I'm thankful. I have no desire to be, nor to date most gay male stereotypes.

By the same token, I don't really feel that much draw for those who impose (consciously or not) the opposite on themselves. Both of these seem very affected to me, and for that reason, dishonest. I like dating humans, not archetypes.