Anyone been involved in DPing a woman?

Applaud TopDudeFL - I have double fucked ass many times. Trick is to have two cocks long enough to get in deep so no accidental slipouts (and an ass that can take it).

We're both wrong, it's dutch -hole dude! Somebody's getting way cenile in here.

It's a joke Meister...it's from "Orgasmo", the movie from the South Park guys...

have only done dp with sex toys maybe one day i,ll get to try it with the real thing

Errr resident fem slut here it seems


I have had this hmmm possibly 10 times ( so it can't have been that bad right? )

However It's not something I fantasise over anymore, and when I masterbate I never use two toys.

In reality, it is an akward thing to do . Limited positions, and with both cocks moving often one pushes the other out if not in a opposite thrusting motion.

I find hot vaginal sex is excellent with a cock in my mouth - and maybe a wild frantic anal ending two cocks at once iside me is just too much of a good thing for me to love i think .



Honey

Always wash up thoroughly between anal and vaginal sex. The bacteria in the rectum is not meant to be in the vagina, and infections can result.

We are in the lifestyle and have done several Vaginal dp's. The women have always loved doing this.

Have done both DP and DVP with two different married couples back quite awhile ago. The penis in the ass and one in the vagina worked best when only one male did most of the moving in and out. The double in the vagina was even a little more difficult to do but both us males really got turned on feeling each other inside the pussy at the same time. It was more difficult for the women to take two cocks in their pussies at the same time but if you take your time and move fairly easily it is fun for all.

i've had a lot of involvement with non-anal DP'ing in my past. my issue is that anal is really not a possibility for me, even with a tiny partner. my 9" husband will never know what anal feels like unless we divorce, poor guy.

my biggest fantasy is DVP. i think about it when i masturbate constantly. when i was separated, i came close three separate times, but i never was able to realise my dream.

i've done a lot of DOP (Double Oral Penetration; i think i'm making up my own acronyms!) and also vaginal-oral penetration. like honey, vaginal sex is amazing when i've got a cock in my mouth. the oral receiver is always in for a great treat as i orgasm 50+ times per sex session easily, and get quite enthusiastic giving oral as i'm orgasming! knowing that i'm the 'conductor' for such sexual energy as on all fours between the guys is SOOOOOOOO exciting!

for DP (vag/anal), from why my gfs tell me is to have a few glasses of wine and start with the vaginal first, then ease into the anal.

I find this topic strangely fascinating, considering that a non-clinical discussion female genitalia it typically quite off-putting to me, but I came upon the reference to DPing and DVP at some point, did a little exploring, and found that, at least in pornography, it is fairly common, but that generally the context seems to vaguely misogynistic (themes such as humiliation, submission, rape, or at the mildest, still involving a derogatory attitude towards the woman involved), and completely heterosexual, which I find baffling, particularly in the case of DVP (looks like an enhanced form of homosexual frottage, to me).

The one straight friend that I have broached the topic with, specified that, in the case of DP, it had to be with a really close buddy, and that male/male contact was strictly prohibited. He didn't seem to be able to explain how that was possible with DVP, and as he wasn't comfortable with the topic, I didn't want to press.

So, what's the motivation for "straight" men? A way to have a sexual encounter with another man with an ostentatious display of heterosexuality? Or is it just that amazing, that it transcends sexual orientation? I could understand that, because, despite my anti-inclination towards any sexual encounter involving a woman, I think that something like DVP might be a compelling enough experience to consent to the presence of the woman. She'd have to be really cool, though...

Hmm. Anyway, comments by straight (or straight-ish) men, on the involvement of the other man? And I wouldn't be offended if those comments include being grossed-out by sexual contact with a guy, 'cause I'm generally revolted by the concept of sexual contact with a women (No offense, lady's, it's just the way I'm wired).

I really think that any man who has dp or dvp'd a woman with another man can still be considered str8. I would think that only bi males can or could get into this. To much male to male (legs to legs, arms to arms, cock to cock and balls to balls, cum to cum) contact for a man that considers himself str8. Has to be as much a turn on for the man to man contact part as it is man to woman for either man to enjoy this.

Nathan

Good critique. But why the need to defend your sexuality and in the same thread challenge the sexuality of str8 men?

I respect your opinion but it's hard to articulate about sexuality when it is put in a political context (gay politics) which generally abrogates str8 men's empathy or acceptance of so called gay sex. Sticking labels on things like a taxonomist doesn't help.

I have engaged in DP and DVP but it never crossed my mind that this could be homosexual behaviour. And because it is in commercial pornography doesn't mean anything. I am sure the ancient Romans were up to it. And the 19th century Briish nacy had an explicit term for it: Hamocking!

ST

Hmm. I guess it could look like that. But I've been out for so long, and suffered enough of the very real penalties for this, that the need to "defend" my sexuality is not even part of my dialogue. So, when I make statements that may appear to be part of such a "defense", it is simply to put into context the incongruity (in my mind) of my finding DVP to be a potentially appealing sexual act. As for challenging the sexuality of heterosexual men, it's not so much that, as being curious as to how straight men view a sexual encounter involving another man, in relation to their own orientation (which is more then simply a measurement of arousal response to gender specific content, or a Kinsey-esque analysis of actual behavior, or a society's stereotypical labels).

But the ancient Romans (and the Greeks before them, as well as most of the cultures of the day) didn't have concepts such as "sexual orientation." Sex acts, nearly without exception, took place between a dominant person (always a male) penetrating the submissive person (usually a female, or a non-adult male). This is a simplification, of course, but the ancients just didn't have a social structure that acknowledged relations between equals, regardless of gender.

I'm not saying that I've got a handle on these issues (otherwise I wouldn't be asking questions). My primary objective in engaging this topic is to further my understanding of myself and others, and to release myself of limiting preconceptions about sexuality (my owen and others), as I believe false assumptions to be barriers to human relationships.

It's an interesting topic, to say the least, and I think the answers to my questions are as varied as the perspectives from which they are given.

Errr ok guys, my hubby is VERY straight ....and also VERY non homophobic. He is completely comfortable with his sexuality - so by a previous posters definition - if he has me in a DP situation and his leg is touching another guys leg and he is not freaking out he is bi?

Sometimes doing DP or DVP is just all about the womans pleasure, she is getting off, your all getting off, its just hot sex ....being comfortable around men yet not wanting to be sexual with them is normal in our circles.

,When cpls get together for foursomes etc....there is usually 2 straight guys. The enviroment is very accepting of bi,gay etc so we usually get a pretty clear picture of what floats you boat early on.

You can have DVP or DP with fairly limited contact but who'd want to? It is about being uninhibited and just going with the flow. I can tell you now, my hubby has had a "chat" or moved away if a guy got overly touchy etc, and am sure he would take a more aggressive approach if he was more full on .....much to my annoyance I'd love him to be bi!! -

We are just a straight couple....it kinda drives me nut a little ( especially in the scene we are in, lots of bi guys and MANY bi women ) - when people assume everyone is bi....we have both opened ourselves up to bi experiences and they were defiantely not our thing at all.....Sexuality is just what you get...We give gay guys and girls the respect that they are ....we hope to get that back as a straight cpl too.


Nathan - I asked my hubby how he felt when doing DVP or DP and he felt the other guys cock etc...this was his response
" its not anything to do with the other guy, its all about sex and fucking and driving a woman crazy, I try not to focus on the cock when DVP as the friction etc is awesome but the sematics of it actually being a guys cock on me would deflate me somewhat. But I am not bi so I have no interest in the other guy or what he is doing its all about the woman and her pleasure"



Honey

If male bodies touching during a DP is a bisexual act does that mean that wrestlers, rugby and football players are bisexual by virtue of the fact that there is a lot of male to male contact with these sports?

What about someone who gives or receives a therapeutic massage from a member of the same sex. Is that a bisexual act?