Ladies... Have you ever been choked during intercourse?

Auto erotic asphyxiation..... becareful with that....

I can't see what's erotic about asphyxiation, it takes all sorts to make a full and interesting sex life but those things should be about sex not mock strangulation or about pain for the sake of pain
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There is a really funny scene in a movie called Pool Hall Junkies in which this guy starts making out with a girl and she grabs his hand and puts it on her throat and tells him to choak her. He gets totally creeped out and jumps up, I always figured thats exactly how I would react.

I am dubious as to the verity of your profile Ms ItBitch

Most people will experience a brief temporary high when oxygen is cut from the brain. It's possible what she experienced was not an orgasm. It's a dangerous dangerous game. You shouldn't trust anyone with that. Not even yourself.

Hold Up here... true about the oxygen thing.. i gotta say.. but also that lack is a total turn on for me.. cant say much for other ppl .. well because we arent all into the same thing...but it also has alot to do with being on the edge... as i said.. i get off on adrenaline rushes...I cant explain why but i know that adrenaline is a chemical that is released by the brain during a time of pain.. its a shelter for ur body... ( medical background here )... and I am into anything that has to deal with pain.. just the way i am

let me also add.. that i would not trust just anyone to do this to me.....just so u guys know lol

That's not sex. If you want chemicals do drugs.

Erotic asphyxiation is creepy, but it's nothing compared to erotic incision... If a girl ever asked me to cut her during sex I'd go from 60 to 0 in no time flat.

erotic incision?!
Oh man, that sounds bad (and messy).

Choking, no, cant say it does it for me.

But to help out a couple of posters who say it is about pain - it does not necessarilly hurt. I have been choked out wrestling and I also nearly drowned (er... strong candidate for brain damage?) neither time did it hurt, it just gets dim. Strangely you can still hear though, and you know what is happening right until you pass out totally. If it was just edged, you would probably stay in the "between", which might be pleasurable if you got off on the lack of power/nearness of death thing.

right ok this one i can comment on :)

me and my fiancee do like to play a little rough sometimes and she loves to be choked while having sex ( to the point of almost un-concious ) i realise of course this is dangerous to an extent and am extremely careful not to take it too far we have a huge amount of trust between us and she knows i will not take it too far with her, I think it has a lot to do with a sub/dom relationship and although i would not say we are fully sub/dom by any means she does like to be dominated in bed and she also likes a little pain too ( within safe limits ) we use a safe word that instantly would stop anything either of us were doing at the time ( this has never been used )

i dont think this makes us or her wierd in any way to be honest with you,

if we like it and it hightens the pleasure we both experinece then it is ok

on that note i think trust is the main issue when these things are concerned.

if the trust is complete and mutual then experimentation is not a bad thing at all


hope you all dont think im some wierd bloke ( i really am not )

Stand next to me and Galt--nobody will ever think you're weird.



Back to the opening topic--and choking-- it's a risk I'd rather not get involved in. What happens on a day when it goes one second too far? It's along the lines of the persons into slapping, punching or various othere violent acts for sexual pleasure. A punch hits too hard and a bone is broken or a kidney is damaged. Is it worth it? With choking, what if the person has a moment of respiratory distress and the choker is so high on the moment that he/she neglects noticing it? Is the chokee becoming unconcious, comatose or dead really a good place to go?


Rest in peace Jennifer Dawn (it'll be 21 years next month).

point taken onslow,

i am i hope a very carefull person when we indulge in such activities ( not often but sometimes ) i know it is a very fine line that we tred and this is why perhaps im am so cautious not to over step the mark, and because my pleasure is hightened by hers and i do not gain pleasure from the act of chocking her ( although she gains some from that ) i am able i believe to not be in the same maybe un-controlable place she is at that moment this allows me to have the control over the choking and not her,

she does enjoy using a belt to choke herself when she is alone i found out recently and have put a stop to that ( i made her promise not to ) as this she could easily lose control over i believe.

my only wish is to please her and for this i am willing to be dominant if she wishes and if she wants to be choked then at least i am the one in control and i know i can protect her from any injury and i know she has the trust in me to know i will not harm her in any way, so perhaps ( conjecture ) she likes the feeling of danger involved with the sub-concious knowledge that she will ultimatly be safe and unharmed.