Ladies... Have you ever been choked during intercourse?

Yeah, I enjoy being dominated but certainly not abused or degrated. My ex-husband tried that shit with me, I realized he had control issues.
Dr.Drew usually claims that gratifying from pain ain't right. Don't anybody dare say somethin bad about my Dr.Drew.

Lisa and I have experimented with a wide range of play in the bedroom.We both draw the line at things that could be physicaly dangerous.

Wow. I don't know a single woman who is into this. If a guy tried to choke me during sex, I'd smack him - hard. lol. NOT into that! Not into pain, really... at least not during sex. If someone else is into that, that's their own deal. But it kind of makes me nervous to think there are guys out there that get off on choking people... and people out there that enjoy being choked.

Nah. I don't need iffy gimmicks like that to enjoy sex. Make me cum till I can't walk and I'm happy . So simple am I.

Phew! Thank you everyone for reaffirming my view on reality. I did think that it was odd when it occured to me, and it was a little off-putting when my friend told me that it was fairly common. At least in this portion of the overall populace, it does not appear to be the norm.

And I would have to agree with you all, as well. I consider myself a generally peace-loving guy, so this whole sado-masochistic aspect of love-making is a very odd animal to me. The only reason I even did it at all is that she really seemed to be getting off on it (and I do aim to please), and that I did trust myself to maintain her safety. Plus, the fact that it was just light pressure from the side of my arm. If she asked me to strangle her with my hands, I'm certain I would have drawn the line.

So the moral of the story is: Oxygen=Good, Lack of Oxygen=Bad

...and Cumming until you can't walk=Good

Fortunately I've never been actually choked. Geez, sex is supposed to feel good, why would I want to be choked?? But actually sometimes we do get kinda carried away in a good way. When things are really heating up he'll sometimes pin my shoulders down or sometimes when I start to cum he cups my neck and my jaw with his hands. He never ever does anything that hurts and I don't mind when he plays a little rough like that, it kinda ups the intensity. I actually do think sometimes when he gets just a little rough it makes my orgasm more intense.

If any guy started choking me during sex id assume he was trying to kill me and start hitting him and screaming for help.

It really is something i can never see myelf trying but i can see why people are interested in trying it..Everyone is looking for a bigger & better orgasm and if you think you can trust the person why not give it a try. I mean how many people have you actually heard die from doing tihis.....Hopefully the person knows when to stop and not get carried away with it though

Well.. Most of my friends are girls so Ive obviously heard of this lol. Never tried it seeing as how I never had the chance to rofl.

Most of the girls said they liked it but they would have to absolutely trust the person. Quite a few of them, however, said hell no.

My girlfriend loves it. I never do it hard though, and I know my limits. Actually, most of the time I just grip the neck and add small amounts of pressure, letting up every few seconds. She goes absolutely crazy when I do it. She loves the dominance thing. It's not really dangerous if you know what you are doing.

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Holy crap I didn't know how old this thread was. I got it on a google search. Sorry for the massive bump.

remember Robert Chambers??? be careful

My ex loved this. At first I was really weirded out by it. The thing is you're not actually choking her, you're just putting your hand around her neck. I wouldn't want anything to do with it if it involved actually cutting off her airflow. She wanted to feel completely dominated, and I didn't want to actually hurt her, so you find the happy middle.

A man received a black eye for this once, many moons ago. My hand was sore for 3 days after.

I'm not into any kind of sex where my safety is risked. I was once violently assaulted and raped by knife-point and it took years to even trust a man again, but then rape is not about sex, it's about power to the aggressor and belittlement to the victim. Please don't even get me started...I'm upfront with any man who wants to be with me that trust is a very important issue for me. I am pretty open to things as long as I do not feel unsafe. I won't let myself be blindfolded, or partake in any kind of threesomes- especially DP. I love sex and as long as a man can respect my wishes and not try to "convince" me otherwise, or try to cross my boundaries we will have a really good time.

like 36DD, i was beated up and date-raped while being pinned down in a choke hold. it's my major "no-no" during sex.

ALWAYS ASK before doing this, no matter what. always.