Sexual Orientation?

If everyone asked someone why they're attracted to the people they liked, you may be surprised at some of the answers. Everyone's sexual orientation is not easily reasoned.

I am not attracted to women sexually but that doesn't mean that I hate women socially. (Maybe they aren't attracted to invisiblemen...that's fine as well. I am definately not hating on that.)

The heart wants what the heart wants. In reality, we don't always get what we want. (In fantasy, we get it and more. Hehehe.)

I recognize and appreciate the physical beauty of men and women, but am not sexually attracted to women. Are you able to make that distinction?

There is nothing wrong with being able to appreciate a male either with or without sexual attraction. Society tells you that this is of course "not right" but as most of us know that is absolute bollocks. Don't be too hard on yourself you are free to find anyone attractive be it male female or both.

You are not weird you are human. Those who have tried to brainwash you are weird.

LivingDildo (love that username, btw), there is nothing to consider weird about what you feel. Do you suppose any of us have control over what arouses us or what we find attractive in anyone? Whatever is, is. If your feelings don't result in harm to others, then it is natural, not weird, to listen to what your body is telling you. As you read through the threads here, you will discover that virtually every shade and nuance of human sexuality is reperesented, and rarely is a member judgmental about another because of his/her sexuality. Now, politics and spiritual beliefs are another matter.

This was my confusion growing up, only without the Internet as a resource. I liked women and men to differing degrees and since I did not dislike women (As I was taught that gay males did), I went about my life confident in my (default) heterosexuality. I always admired fit men and I lusted after women. I thought I was a "modern man" who rose above the trappings of objectification of men and not being able to say that Johnny Deep was handsome. It took me no less than the first 30 years of my life to uncover my true self.

LivingDildo--take your time as you seek these answers and be careful if you experiment. Not everyone uncovers their true self at the same pace or in the same way. What is most important is that you embrace your true self fully and be okay with whatever conclusions you reach. Best of luck!

I live by the saying "Variety is the spice of life" I'd hate to limit myself to one sex, I'd be bored silly within a week lol

My first sexual experience was as a teen with my neighbor..we would both show each other our cocks, compared the shapes, colors, etc. Soon after we would jerk each other off, then lick each other, then complete BJ's, then anal sex. We both enjoyed each other and that was that.

Now I'm married,and love sex with women, BUT I still miss those days of touching a cock, feeling it pulsate and climax. When my wife and I watch porn, it's always a bi-sex movie, she says she enjoys them better, but she can tell by my horniness that it's a total turn on for me.

I don't think I would solicite a male encounter, but I wouldn't turn one down either. The complexities of life.

I am not attracted to models either, and i am attracted to ordinary women too. I feel nothing for men.

I do not think that just some unspecified “attraction” to good looking men is linked to sexual orientation, unless you feel sexual attraction to them. It sounds like you just appreciate male beauty, and this does not necessarely mean homosexuality: beauty is beauty, it is objective.