Falling for Someone ONLINE.

sweet!

LOL!

oh yeah squirt? observe. learn.
beer. an excellent dietary source of urine. part of my daily routine.

Anyone besides me wondering what kind of porn Mr. and Ms. Kotchanski were collecting?

Oh now that would be telling

I met a wonderful guy online. We talked a lot (as in every night) and finally he came to see me and spent the WE.

We've been married for over 2 years now, and together for 3.

Now see, when I hear all these stories... I have to wonder if there is something to this whole Online Relationship thing.

I know a few people who have paired off from this site, and they seem to be doing well.

Regardless of the progression of the relationship,.... I think it is possible to have a few month/few years of fun before you both may drift apart due to distance.

Either way, I totally support the idea now that so many people have had such great experiences. Doesn't mean it will work everytime.. but it is still a nice idea.

I shall announce my intentions to marry someone on this board by 2008.

BTW, congrats to all those who had good times.

You are right, I have considered that. But I have decided to let it go - he has not even entered, let alone finish, university yet. I do not believe he knows - I have not told him. He should have a chance to grow. If he chooses to grow towards me, I will gladly accept it.

Furthermore, we live in different continents. Geographically, we are 16 hours apart. LA to NY is only 4 hours apart, geographically.

And I'm sure that the name 'Mrs. Jonah Falcon' will suit you well.

LOL, I prefer to keep my name as well...

How about Mr. Jonah Falcon-Black?

I wondered if anyone has had the pleasure of falling for another person on the internet?

Well it is nice to know some people have, but I can't ever imagine it happening to me, and actually I know it won't because it isn't really what I'm looking for.

To be interested romatically in someone ....

I would need to be able to taste them, smell them, shower or bathe with them, and hold them in my arms, (in no particular order).

If you want to hear something funny... I said the same thing. I don't come online, looking for someone to marry. The funny part, is the other person said the EXACT same thing as you did. Yet, here we are....

Yup, I agree with it. I think the beauty of the internet, is that you get to see all their great traits FIRST. If you meet afterwards, then you notice the little things. ALTHOUGH, by then, they won't matter.

My now ex and I met online. We'd chat on the phone everyday and one Christmas many years ago I flew to the US and met up with him. Unfortunately I picked up a mild case of food poisoning from one of the flights and ended up in bed sick most of the time I was there.

In the end, the distance became too much. Like yhtang, I too live on another country 19 hours away.

Yonkers.

I met someone on a dating site over a year ago and everything was great in the beginning even though we were four hours apart. Disintegration began when it dawned on me that everything he listed in his profile as truth was wishful thinking on his part, something to which he later admitted. Now when I chat with someone online for dating purposes, I take whatever they say with a grain of salt until after i've met them and spent considerable time with them, otherwise I think it's impossible to really know someone.

I accidently fell for a guy on line once...extremely heated and passionate, I found that getting to know someone from the inside out (through mail and IM) was a very in depth and personal thing.

Bottom line....all men are married until proven otherwise.

On the flip side.. I know about 4 couples who got together thru on line relationships and got married or lived together. I also know of one marriage that almost WASNT because of cybersex, and one that ended ( a 40 yr marriage) because of cyber chat ( cheating).

I think women have to watch out for predators who only see the net as a way to get allot of one night stands. I think men have to watch out for women, who are only looking for a "supported lifestyle". They are out there, I saw a guy totally shanghied into marriage with a woman who had bugged his computer. No kidding.

The net is great, it really is. Its just too bad there are so many liars and fake people. Even here I have seen posts complaing about people who lie thru their teeth.

I have never met anyone from here... yet. But God knows, I am hot for about a dozen of you hot fuckers and have serious mancrushes on more than a few.