Male/male sex question - what do other hung guys prefer?

It takes time to enjoy it, you have to be loosened up and when you are make sure your fucked slow at first. You will enjoy it over time. I find that if I go 3 or 4 days without being fucked by my partner I start to tighten up and it takes time to get loose again. (Or it is just my excuse to be fucked 2 or 3 times a week.)
My partner says I'm to big for him so I bottom 99.999% of the time. (I don't mind)

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IMHO, tight hole is a highly overrated virtue. I prefer 'em open and wet.

as a very big top I have a 3 finger rule if you cant take 3 fingers than you cant take me
plus i make them clean out really well
i go deep.
yes lots of lube and time

I think there's a difference between tightness and an ability to relax and open your hole up for a guy. I'm very, very tight, but as soon as my hole feels a fat cockhead pressed up against it, it opens up, and a guy can just slide his dick straight up me to the nuts. It doesn't mean I'm loose - as soon as that dick is all the way in, I clamp down and grip it like a vice. I think it's more about learning how to control yourself down there. Relax/push out on the in strokes and grip on the out strokes.

ok gross alert
I have fisted as a top and yes the ass goes back to its regular shape.

Landon, it does not go back to its pre stretched size for several days. That is why you will need to wear a diaper for a day to two as you will have no bowel control. You may need to change your self several times.

Just kidding. Though I have wondered myself if guys that do it real often and fist as well will over a long period of time stretch the spinchtor muscle to the point that they do have trouble controlling their bowels.

Fisting is putting the whole hand up your anus, maybe even past the wrist.
Lots of it on x-tube.

(No, I don't do that).

I am tight too, but I have no trouble getting anything (fingers, tongue - I love tongue) in through the sphincter. It's after that that I usually have to stop. Just hurts too much. Fingers - no problem - but anything longer just doesn't seem to work. Hmmm.

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My bf is 9" long and of pretty large girth. I'm fairly tight also. When we first started having sex, no amount of foreplay could loosen me up enough for him to even work the head completely in. So he and I began using dildos to work my hole up to accomodating him. We started with a very small one and when I became able to take it without any foreplay, we would move up to a larger one. We eventually worked up to me being able to take a 8" x 4" without any prep/foreplay. I wanted to stop a little short of his length and girth so that when he did finally penetrate me it would be tight for him and a bit of a challenge for me. This entire process was extremely hot fun for us both. And we both agree that the first time he was able to fuck me with that beautiful cock was one of the most intense sexual experiences either of us have ever had.

I had another buddy who was very tight also. I was the top in that relationship. I am only 7" and just average girth. Long foreplay sessions with me eating and fingering him, and lots of sucking each other would always loosen him up just enough.

I agree. Mind you, it is not that common I don't think.