straight guys, jacking off with friends? how?

long story short.. i pretty much grew up in my own private bubble world of false morality..
i hear a lot of guys, gay and straight, talking about how they would or do jack off with their best friends..
i just have a questions.
HOW THE HELL..scuse me... did that happen? i cant even fathom it.. im not a freaking prude or anything.. far from it.. but at no point in my life(past 8 years old anyway) did a mutual jack-off session with my best guy-friends ever come up.. it seems insane that it happened to so many of you.

and also.. why?

please explain.. i wouldnt mind jerking off with my best friend(hes cute and all).. but at the same time... yeah.. why?

lol

Eh with me it just happened, alcohol has a lot to do with these situations.

I really can't see it happening either. I have many circles of friends and we get nowhere near that topic. We have lots of sexual jokes (and fairly funny ones that joke about me being gay, like "It's okay for Michael!"), but we never talk about masturbation at all.

Ah the litmus test of self-perceived straightdom.

Ask yourself this: If both of your arms were broken and in casts, would you let your best friend jack you off? Or, if both his arms were broken and in casts would you jack him off?

You'd be very surprised how many self-professed and, undoubtedly, straight guys will say yes to at least one if not both.

Duke610 says:

Ask yourself this: If both of your arms were broken and in casts, would you let your best friend jack you off? Or, if both his arms were broken and in casts would you jack him off?

Uhh, no, actually, I believe the straight guy whose arms are both
broken would call his girlfriend and ask HER to do it.

This situation (straight guy friend whackin' with his buddy) never
entered my world, either. Nice fantasy.

Hey come on guys......we all jack off......most of us everyday or at least a 5-6 times per week. We all do it, so why no with a good buddy? I am not talking about oral sex or butt sex.....just two horney dudes sitting around watching porn.
I have two buddies who are both very straight......so am I for that matter......
Sometimes between girlfriends or during a dry week.......we might get together and watch some tube.......lots of times flipping through the channels....we get to some soft porn......does not take much to get hard. Next thing you know....we are rubbing our cocks.
So why not just whip it out and get the job done? No harm.....no foul.....just some good clean jackin.
You homophobes are most likely screaming.....NOT ME MAN......so you would rather run home with a hard on and hide in the bathroom and jack alone. Yeah sure if I have a girlfriend.....I would rather be with her......but there are times, when that is not an option.......so jackin with my buds is the next best option.

Hope you someday feel comfortable enough with yourselves and open up enough to have friends that are cool enough for this to happen. Gotta say it's more fun than I ever imagined. Kinda funny to see your buddy hard and spankin his cock......You will gain a whole new respect for each other.

When I was in middle school (about 13 years old) my buddy and I would order the playboy channel (when his dad wouldnt). We figured he ordered it so often that he wouldnt notice if we did it. We used to jack off all the time. He would be on one couch, I would be on the other. I didn't care to look much his way, nor him towards me, those were the earliest memories of us watching porn, so of course our eyes were glued. However, nowadays I most likely would not jack off in front of friends. Maybe him to just relive the good ol days. I think something happens as your grow up more. Porn isn't as new and maybe eyes would wander more and guys would start to question their sexuality unfortunately. There is nothing gay about it, but I think a lot of guys not comfortable with themselves, which seems to be the majority, would have a serious problem with it. Like I said, I think age has something to do with it, especially in the late teens through the 20s. Too much going on in our minds to throw in a jack off session with another male.

well said bro

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Chalk me up as another "Never did it, never wanted to do it" guy.

My friends... I'm closer to many of them than my own family, they are my family really. It would feel like incest to me... yeah, I know, bad word choice. But that's why I've never done it in my life. When those of you that have done this with friends do it, do you talk about it afterwards? If I jerked off with friends, I assume it would feel like a pink elephant in the corner... What a strange situation it could be afterwards, I'd just rather avoid it alltogether.

I do have a couple friends that I openly talk about and trade porn with though. I've even wathced porn with them... and even then we all had the self control to keep it in the pants. But that's just us. Jerkin off alone feels more than good enough for me!

you nailed it dude.

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Yeah it is not the easiest thing that happens....I have only done it twice watching porn w/a buddy....I am actually more comfortable doing it with myself....And alcohol can play a key role in breaking the ice....

Yeah, maybe while drunk I could see this sorta thing happening... maybe .

Although, I have a friend who has this weird habit of complaining about how small his penis is when he's drunk... so even then, if he was around I'd still rather not partake in the sacred art of the 'group pud pull'.

These kind of fantasy's were my biggest hope in high school; I was very much in love with a straight guy, Steven. He knew, everybody knew, we were cool with it.
Everybody would talk about sex very openly, and so would I. We talked about his girlfriends to me, and he knew very well what I wanted from him...
I tried everything; asking nicely, debating, getting him drunk, offering him money, begging (on my knees even when I was the one getting drunk ); nothing worked. On top, he would find it terribly funny to tease me, so I would pop a boner. Good laughs, and we stayed very good friends, but I never even got to see his dick.
I'm pretty sure he must've jacked off with another straight guy from school... at some point; they were neighbours and Stevens computer was swarmed with porn.
So... tell me guys, what happened? Most of you think it's ok to jerk off with a buddy, is it such a big difference when the buddy would be gay?

I must chime in here too. I would have enjoyed a scenario such as has been described, where a bunch of my pals would sit around & we'd all wank to a porn or something. Never happened for me, and probably never will. I would totally be open to it. I see nothing "gay" about it, but since I'm bisexual I would get more of a kick out of it (and would probably find myself watching the other guys more than the avg. 100% straight guy). I do think this stuff happens & that's fine.....but I hear it more often than not from guys I talk to & chat with that it is easy to start to wonder if the scenarios are all in their heads ;) I hope not, because I agree; if jacking off's a hobby for you (like it sometimes is for me!) then why not enjoy that WITH friends. Why waste a good climax when others can enjoy it as well?

i have never had the chance to j.o with a buddy, but would take the opportunity if it came along.. reckon it'd could be real fun!!