Sex with Fat Guys

Why does anyone, well-educated or not, become a habitual drug abuser? Or drinker? It's all the same thing, it's called addiction, and everyone has their own reasons for being addicted to the drug of their choice, be it food or cociane, sex or alcohol. Self hate, self punishment, deep inescapable emotional pain, avoidance......

What we want to know is...WHY?? What is it about them physically that does it for you? WHAT THE HELL WAS NIBBLZ TALKING ABOUT???

OK this is the gay male perspective. NOW WE WANT THE FEMALE PERSPECTIVE.

I sense a Ron Jeremy crush here.

I went with several fat guys; if you are intersted here's something about the best 3:
1) 5"8 tall, around 280-300 weigh. He's my favourite,he's around 6 inches long and 5" girth but very very hard. He is 61 y.o., married and very polite (even if a bit butch) guy.
2) a little taller around 230, he was as long as me but thinner. Unfortunaltely his stomach was very big and he was 74 so having sex wasn't the easiest.
3) 5.3, 250, very little one; as matter of fact he was not really active with his tool, anyway he was 72.

Few others displayed to me that penis size is penalized by fat especially in old men when the fat on the stomach incline downward and become more flaccid.

Back off the big guys, babe. Not every overweight person is addicted to food. There are three basic body types; Ectomorph, Endomorph and Mesomorph. Each has a different natural metabolism. Read up on it, and in the meantime if you don't like overweight guys get the hell off this thread.

For myself I don't have a preference for or against. I've dated two guys who could be considered obese but they carried it well. One was 6'4" and was in the 350lb range, the other 6'2" maybe 300lbs. Both built like grizzly bears. both on the large side of average, neither on scale of what you would see here.

One thing I've noticed all heavier guys have going for them is very strong legs. I LOVE strong thighs on a man. Whoo!

LMAO WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?????? You look stupid, cos you obviously haven't followed all of the posts in the thread. If you do not possess positive reading comprehension skills, then a bulletin board is NOT a good place for you.

No need to yell, mate.

As for the OP: Nope, never have had sex with a fat guy, so I cannot really contribute.

But apparently, Gillette doesn't read well, so I figured I'd help her out by emphasizing with CAPS.

Maybe you should follow your own advice, Bette.

How about manners? Do you think you could invest some time and energy in getting some manners? (I need not do so as I am both maniacal and mad). Gillette made an extremely valid point Being heavy is not necessarily a matter of cramming a ton of food into the face Certain people have a metabolism and other factors that make them more likely to be heavier and if you yourself Bette do not care for portly men then take your sad act elsewhere honey.

It all depends on what you concider "fat" My boyfriend is 6'1 and around 300 lbs, and yes he's pudgy, built like the pillsbury doughboy. round belly but very thick muscular legs and arms, yet he's wonderfly hung at 8.5 inches. I myself could be concidered fat. being 5' 9" and weighing 215 lbs. but then again I've got 7.5 inches to show for it, who knows I might be able to get another half to an inch If I lose the pudge above my dick :) BTW the sex with him is wonderful.. giving and recieving.

Bette, you ARE confrontational!

I've read all of your posts to this thread and I have some sincere advice.

A couple of weeks ago I took offense to several posters replies to threads. In a fit of anger, I replied back by being offensive myself! Trust me, that is the wrong way to go! I even attacked the Moderator whose job it is to keep what goes on around here at a certain level of civility! He replied to my rant with advice to "chill out", at the time it only made me angrier and I then went on to offend him (quite unfairly!) My advice, Bette, is not to take immediate offense, or lash out in anger, at what people say to you! Many of the nicer people here (especially you, Gillette!) are only trying to tell you that perhaps it would be better not to be so offensive in your opinions or posts.

As someone who is quite confrontational (at times) myself, I understand your defensive replies. Many times we think people are out to be jerks or smart asses when, in fact, they are only trying to help us out! Bette, I hope you will understand this and will not take my advice as my trying to be 'holier than thou'! Believe me, I am not! I have just had experience with this sort of stuff a few times in my short time here. I still find many things posted, offensive. However, I have decided just to let things go! You wanna know what I was offended by two weeks ago? It was people who had posted in threads about how much they didn't like those threads and their subjects! Bette, my advice to them was basically to move on if they don't have anything positive to contribute to a thread! Unfortunately (as Alex8 said) it was lost, because I also included in my advice offensive words to those posters!

Bette and Karmen: if you don't like fatboys, you don't have to be so cruel as to say that they are addicted to food, ugly, or that they don't take care of themselves! Maybe the old saying "if you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all", is something you two should consider when posting. Again, I'm not trying to pretend to be better than you two. I'm just speaking from experience!

Bette, I already mentioned above what I think of your posts. However, since you were kind enough to acknowledge what I said to you, I will do the same.

I take offense to your characterization of black girls (especially the "all ghetto" and calling those girls "crazy black bitches"!) I know that you may have said it in jest, but I personally take offense to it! I am Hispanic and gay! I take stereotypes quite seriously, as I have seen the negative effects they have for minorities and gays! Again, try to be more positive in the future. It does one a whole lot better, believe me!

On the show: I agree with you, I don't see what these girls find attractive about Flavor Flav! He has a cute personality, but he has shown a darker side of himself many times! Overall, I like him, but in no way find him attractive! I'm sure (as with all reality shows!) money and exposure, and the potential D-List celebrity one can achieve from being on a reality show is what is motivating many of these girls! To be fair though, VH-1 and Flavor Flav are using them only for their own gain, as well!

I hate most reality shows and most of the "stars" of them, but I see them for what they mostly are: cheap, mostly harmless, entertainment!

Awwwww, Mad Man, if you don't like my poor manners you should just ignore me. I promise I won't cry.

Let me guess. You've dealt with addiction before, and you believe that copout theory that addiction is somehow genetic, rather than taking responsibility for it yourself. Tsk tsk. How are those AA/NA/OA meetings working out for you?

What makes you truly boring is your thirst for political correctness.

Not defensive. Simply HONEST. And if you don't like what I have to say, please ignore my posts. Like I said...I won't cry. I'm not here to make friends. I have my own friends and family, I don't need a second set online.

Wow, what a freakin windbag! You just like to hear yourself talk. You just go on and on and on. Like a bad professor. Or therapist.

As far as all of this supposed hating goes...it's hilarious, as my initial reply is what really got the ball rolling on this thread. Perhaps before you all talk out of your assholes, you should read it first, cos y'all look ridiculous.