Guys' approaches

I just say Hi and smile and make eye contact and ask questions. this is where confidence wins her over. posture, body language, tone of voice, laughter, etc. be interested in what she is saying, if you are faking, she will know. some compliments are okay, but fawning over her comes off as desperate. I like to find a detail that she tells me and compliment that, say what she does for work, rather than just her appearance. i think it shows some depth and thought, and BINGO you have something in common. loud bars are cool sometimes because i can put my hand on her back or shoulder and lean in to hear her, creating closeness. bottom line is, women are just as shallow as we are. if you arent attractive to her, she will put you down in her mind as "creepy". if she thinks you are good looking, she will give you some time. It all sounds good in theory, but im usually way to drunk to pull it off.

Phil Hartman's character on Newsradio had a good line, related to a possible seduction strategy...he said, "Go up and whisper the dirtiest thing you can think of in her ear. If she doesn't slap you and walk away, it means she's interested."

Wow, knocked out of the ring before the starting bell. I haven't been in a bar since maybe 1985. And even that was just to pick up the Chinese take-out.

Hmm!I never felt the need to seduce a woman.After my wife and I got to know one another as friends love and sex followed on thier own.I'm not into one night stands so I guess that counts me out.

You can't even imagine how in love i am, dreamer. Everytime i think of her i feel music in my heart...